[Reprinted]How gay men get straight men

To deal with a straight person, you first have to figure it out. Straight people like the opposite sex, which is different from G. Although queer theory believes that every man has the potential to become gay, there are still differences. If you are the kind of little baby who is not deeply involved in the world and wants to stay with a certain man for life, then it is still recommended that you find a G. Even so, you may not be able to stay with that man for long, but at least There is comfort in your heart. My opinion is that the more you think about something lasting, the more ephemeral it becomes. People can only gain, but it is difficult to hold on to anything. Generally, the boys who are recognized by G are relatively outstanding. Girls have too many utilitarian aspects in choosing a mate, and generally there are very few Gs. What attracts G is a certain temperament. Of course, there are also those who are only attracted by looks, but that is G's. Primary stage. The straight person you like is often around you, and you are more comfortable with him. Don’t stop your straight girlfriend from getting married and having children. Don’t put yourself on the opposite side of girls. Please separate yourself from women. When a boy is together, he just goes with the flow. If you force him, it will only make him more painful. A more calm relationship is the one that can truly be maintained. Take a step back and say that if you break up, you can still find other boys, but if you bring a shadow to his psychology, it will really cause him a lot of harm. I want the person you love to get hurt and you feel guilty too. There are a few points to note at this stage: 1. Don’t confess blindly. At least you don't have to be friends, at worst you have to worry about your future being screwed by him. I think you need to be with him for at least two months before you can make any moves in the next movie. Of course, you should control this time yourself and don't rush in. 2. 3. Show your personality charm and don’t let yourself become mediocre. But I believe that the average G has some talents that straight people don’t have, such as their understanding of art and literature. Tell some philosophical stories to let him notice your talents in this area. Unlike those men who are big and rough, he will discuss more things with you. Another example is the choice of some utensils and clothing. When shopping, you can actively make suggestions for him and make him more handsome. When others say that he is more stylish, they will naturally think of you. I will definitely take you with me next time I go shopping. Don’t choose someone who is too smart, at least not someone who is smarter than you. This kind of shrewdness is not IQ but emotional intelligence. It is better to have less contact with such versatile people. Because they are exposed to many things, you may be so clumsy in their eyes. In this case, I'm afraid it will be difficult to achieve results. I don’t recommend choosing someone who is generally very good-looking, because they are generally narcissistic. Unless you think you are better than him, otherwise everything you give will be taken for granted by him. There is another type of people who have a particularly strong sense of morality. This kind of people are more poisoned by feudal ideas. In fact, this kind of people are quite likable. But as for Fahai in "Green Snake", I'm afraid you can disturb his will, but in the end he will be tired of him. It is best not to touch the above three types of people. There are also some tips and tidbits. There are some questions you must not admit, such as whether you are G. This is actually like a woman asking a man if he only loves me. Men often answer that they will love you only in this life. But everyone knows that this kind of promise is just lip service. And if you admit that you are G, you are admitting that you may like other men. What you said is just to maintain the uniqueness of love. In my opinion, this is just a little clever. But it does require attention. [next] You can do it the same way as in "Absolute Love". Your general meaning should be expressed as: "Love has nothing to do with gender, love is just because of you." You just love him, and you like a man because of him. You are not interested in other men. Although this is a bit of a word trick, it can also ensure that the two of you will not disagree due to identity. Another point is that he is more or less not manly enough. Of course, what I mean by men here is the sense of identification with men in the traditional sense. Times are changing and so are the perceptions of men. But what I need to emphasize is that you don't make yourself look too much like a woman. Be straightforward on many issues and be straightforward in dealing with things.

It's understandable to show vulnerability and helplessness occasionally, but you still look like a woman all the time. I'm afraid the straight person you like will also find you annoying. The way men get along with each other is different. Show yourself more deeply. A cup of good tea always needs to be savored slowly. You need to give yourself some substance. Sometimes an unexpected performance will give the other party a lot of surprises... (First of all, I don’t agree with falling in love with straight men, because straight men like women, but straight men do have a strong destructive power against gays. This It’s a fact. But it’s really satisfying to deal with straight men! Haha~~)