The spine grows in the bone and has a handful of ashes after burning.

The spine grows in the bone and has a handful of ashes after burning.

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I have a senior who was green and white before graduation and naturally went bald after taking part in work. As soon as he caught a lot of hair, he simply shaved his head.

In fact, when he was studying, there were always classmates pointing fingers, saying that he could not find an object in the future; After work, some colleagues joked that his career was doomed to be bumpy.

The most terrible thing is that those irresponsible remarks have finally become a true portrayal of reality.

He hasn't been in love for four years in college, but he has read a lot. After he joined the work, he worked hard in his post for five years without moving, without a commendation and condolences. He learned a lot of interpersonal skills, conceptual skills and technical skills.

That colleague is also very wronged. He often feels that the world of mortals is slowly leaving him. He also knows that in this society with rich values and feelings, people are very concerned about the external evaluation of others. It's natural to listen to compliments, but at least what they don't want to hear is sarcasm and sarcasm.

But he is still optimistic, sunny, quiet and kind.

He said: "Being good to yourself is also a kind of."

At the age of 28, he became the director of the department, and at the end of 28, he met the girl he liked.

Whenever he talks about this part of his experience, he always says that showing others a complete and beautiful character design can satisfy his vanity; More importantly, we should have the backbone to admit that we are clowns in life, just as we admit that we have fatal weaknesses. Only by renewing yourself in knowledge and cognition, later, as for those crazy words like vigorous grass, they seem insignificant.

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When I was very young, when Murakami was a production team, people around me were always filled with the theory that reading was useless because of backward education.

Some people say, don't expect knowledge to change your destiny. Reading is the business of city people, and spending money on reading is a bottomless pit.

Others say that this child's life is over, let alone whether he can be admitted. When he is admitted to work, others have already earned a house, and children can run around. It's no use learning so much.

Although these words were addressed to my father, my father's belief in education investment has always been firm. Because, since my father started to get married, he has nothing, even a brick and a tile is earned by himself. He deeply felt that uneducated people in society would be bound to do anything, and he had to feel inferior and carefully pull out people's teeth.

Father is afraid of poverty and hopes that the next generation will shine at the threshold, at least with a net in his hand.

At that time, the cost of schooling for one child in rural families was quite high. Maybe others can easily save enough tuition for one year, but his father is going to sell iron, cement, do big work and sell food.

As far as I can remember, during the 365 days of frugality, not a single relative visited, and every time he didn't answer, he relied on his relatives and friends to help him, especially those cowards who looked down on you, and it was impossible to turn against him. My father suffered a lot.

Later, I was admitted to the university and worked hard in the university. Part of the reason for my efforts is that my family is really bad, and the other part is to fight back.

Later, my father provided for me to graduate from college, and I worked smoothly after graduation. The father's groping also put a family on the right track.

Human nature, maybe that's it, like it or not. Relatives who have been separated for a long time suddenly become familiar. My friends who used to be lukewarm were all smiling, and my father was all smiling.

He said that laughter and acceptance are mutual redemption and tolerance, and part of them are redemption and redemption of poverty; The other part is to be tolerant and tolerant of the current fortune.

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My father's backbone has always accompanied me to grow up. After four years of college, I understand that reading is not only for face, but also for lining.

A Do not forget your initiative mind, a contribution.

At that time, I have been thinking about a question: what can poor students spell except hard work? Why should I give up trying? What reason do I have not to seize the opportunity to change my destiny?

Only hard work is the cruelest fate.

Let alone a dormitory. At that time, the dormitory was on the first floor, and many people in the class were poor disciples. But many people know what kind of suffering reading is, and what is the purpose of studying hard?

Some are to find enviable careers and love.

Some are to leave their youth in big cities, take their parents over and settle down, and enjoy family happiness.

There is plenty of time to see those relatives and friends during the holidays, and I have the confidence to prove myself to you that I can be ambitious.

Some are just to refute those aggressive eyes and attitudes.

A "for", just two words, needs two generations, or one generation bears the pressure of two generations to make a lifetime of dedication. There is no price and equivalence in this world. If you grope in a bad class, you will often climb up. You just have to rely on your twisted back.

The next moment is a bolt from the blue

It's a cold wave for a while.

There will be a storm for a while.

It will be a rainstorm later.

There are few neon lights.

It is this kind of growth that is held by the group atmosphere, neglected by Sharp, buried by ruthless rumors, and pushed by self-destructive mentality.

Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? That helplessness, in a sense, has forced a family to seek a breakthrough.

I understand this breakthrough process as "fools move mountains" in the eyes of those old men.

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Even though the gully of the years is vivid in my mind, I am deeply moved and realize four things in the world:

There is a dilemma in the world: it is difficult to climb to heaven, and it is even more difficult to ask for help. There are two kinds of bitterness: Coptis chinensis is bitter, and poverty is more bitter.

There are two thins in the world: spring ice is thinner and human feelings are thinner. There are two risks: Jianghu risks, and people's hearts are more dangerous.

Even so, I think the spine should grow in the bone, and there will be a handful of ashes when burned like that. People should rely on themselves, don't let themselves be down and out all their lives.

Many people around me have said well in the future, so they should show themselves, so why care about other people's eyes? What others say is not good, can't, can't, really bad. I'm afraid I'm living a bad life and my mind is distorted. I think saying a few depressing and lame words will hurt others' lives and make others live under their own dust.

I am also grateful to such a group of people who are still staring at themselves in the process of growing up, never letting go of themselves, and always thinking about themselves in their mouths and hearts. I also understand that they are just talking and thinking.

Such thoughts, even if Qian Qian is absolutely unhappy and unhappy in his heart, still look like a flower, and people's mentality should not be so dark.

Think about it from another angle: if they gave honey in those years, they might like to eat sweet but not bitter; If I had given Huanglian in those years, it might have been bitter first and then sweet. I will remember the bitter experience.

On second thought, it seems that those contempt and ridicule have become another kind of encouragement and spur.

Just like the gyro we whipped when we were young, in fact, we whipped not the gyro, but fate. We keep banging on the top, spinning and making progress, and people are generally urged to arch forward.

One-day arch, no contribution.

Heaven rewards diligence, and Yucheng.

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Text | Lei Lei

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