A voice from a mother: I have been raising my baby for eight years and I really want this job.

After eight years of marriage and seven years of raising a child, I am really eager to get a job. Yesterday, my friend introduced me to a job. I discussed it with my family since yesterday, but no one found it. He was willing to help me take care of my children, but I had no choice but to turn him down. I felt very reluctant and felt so uncomfortable!

Yesterday, a good friend said that her garment factory was recruiting people and asked me to go there. She could teach me there. I was moved. I have been married for eight years and have been a stay-at-home mother for eight years. I also want to go out to work. In addition, for the past eight years, I have relied on my husband to support the family alone. The economy is tight. The expenses for three children are very high. Often, my husband has not yet After I pay my salary, I run out of money, and I usually wouldn’t even want to buy better clothes.

My eldest son and daughter are both in kindergarten, and my younger son is also two years old. I thought my mother-in-law would help me take care of him. I said before that it would be hard to take care of a small child, so it was me who didn’t help me take care of him. I have to take care of it all by myself. Now that the children are older, will she agree to help me? I tried to call her and told her that I wanted to work. Before I even mentioned letting her take care of the baby, she rejected me directly. She said that she was also very busy and had a lot of things to do. I understood. What she meant was to say nothing more.

I hesitated for a long time whether to ask my mother to help me. It’s not easy for my mother. She has her farm work and her granddaughter to take care of. The most important thing is that she is afraid that my brother’s wife will have objections. Whenever there is a conflict, it's troublesome. I'm so helpless now. I wish someone could lend a helping hand, but I can't do anything. I can't help but feel my tears fall!