I have a bad relationship with my friends because of a little thing. How can I relieve it?

Even friends, there will always be differences of opinion. What we need to do at this time is to communicate with each other. If there is a contradiction because of this matter, you might as well put down your posture and apologize to the other party.

I am a stubborn girl with a big temper. If others don't follow me, I may be angry. Maybe I am spoiled by my family and boyfriend at ordinary times, and I think everyone should follow my temper. But friends don't think so. They can follow you once or twice, but after a long time, they don't want to do it, because they will also have their own ideas and things they want to do. So I often quarrel with my friends later, because of all kinds of small things, and sometimes even because the other party doesn't follow my meaning.

I have a best friend who has been playing for six or seven years. We usually talk about everything, but we broke up because of a quarrel. At the beginning of that time, I felt nothing. She didn't look for me and I didn't look for her. Anyway, it's not that I can't live without her as a friend But after a long time, I feel particularly unaccustomed. I have a person who has nothing to say, and now it seems that I have nothing to say. So I took the initiative to find her, asked her if we could make up, and then bought her a small gift.

I thought she might not forgive me so soon, but when I said these words, she cried directly. Then she immediately came to my house to find me. She kept apologizing to me and said that we hadn't talked for a while, and she felt particularly sad.

In fact, there is really no contradiction between real friends. Even if you two have a cold war over something, as long as you say a word, your friend may come back to you immediately. When you are thinking about how to make up with him, he may be thinking about whether to come to you on his own initiative.