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A classic letter to my mother-in-law

Whether a marriage is happy or not is also related to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law get along well, there will be no worries in family life. Below I have compiled a sample letter to my mother-in-law, welcome to read!

A sample letter to my mother-in-law 1

Mother-in-law:

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I always want to find time to talk to you and tell you what’s on my mind, but my reason tells me that talking to you is not a good idea. In addition to hurting you, it may also hurt your son. I My husband!

I have been married for more than two years. During this time, our relationship seems to have been deteriorating. Although we are trying to ignore some things, it seems to be in vain to cover up.

Every time I am angry with you, I will think of the anger you suffered when you were my wife, and I will think of you being single, so I endure it, for you and yours. son.

You always think that your son is the best, the best, and you always think that I am not worthy of him. So, you are always finding fault with me. Your son can do nothing, but as long as I stop, your face will show dissatisfaction. When eating, you always urge your son to eat this and that. Once I eat a few more, you quickly tell your son: "This is gone, eat it quickly!" and you glance at me over and over again. .

You keep saying bad things about me in front of my second son, and bad things about my second daughter-in-law in front of my husband. As a result, the relationship between me and my brother-in-law is not as good as before. At home, you always like to be the instigator of trouble. My husband and I have argued so many times because of you. One time I cried so hard that you didn't react at all. In fact, it was not my fault at all. And your second son had to drive away her wife with great reluctance. You won't let me go after that.

Once, because of this, I wanted to leave your son, but I endured it. Not for yourself, for your son. Every time I see his thin face, I feel so much heartache and reluctance. You always feel that I am not worthy of him, that he can find someone better if he leaves me, but you don’t know that he can no longer do without my care and love. Every time you do that to me, he feels very painful. And I know the pain in his heart, so I always choose to endure it and cry alone.

Every child is a treasure in front of their parents, and so am I. But in front of you, I have to be treated like this. Even so, I'm still trying to create a harmonious atmosphere, and I've even been actively trying to please you. Although you don't appreciate it very much, I see my husband's understanding smile, and I think it's worth it.

Mom, can you share some of your great maternal love with your daughter-in-law? You will really find that your life will be thousands of times better than now. I sincerely pray for you to be healthy and everything goes well. !

Daughter-in-law

XX, XX, 20XX

Sample letter to mother-in-law 2

Mother-in-law:

You are just my husband's mother. Before marriage, you had no meaning in my life at all. My life comes from my parents. Today’s academic qualifications, abilities, education, and principles of dealing with others are all inherited from my parents. Not a single penny is contributed by you.

So I don’t understand why, as soon as I got married, all the years that I lived for more than 20 years had to be reset to zero, and I became the so-called person in "your family" and then became the "youngest" in your family. people. I say "youngest" because my status in "your family" has always been smaller than that of my son, who is only 2 years old this year.

To be honest, I am very mentally unbalanced. My parents raised me for more than 20 years, and you are the result of their hard work for more than 20 years. Basically, you got something for nothing, something ready-made. So when I do things for you, you have to thank my parents and my hard work.

If you are not grateful, then forget it. You should not still have great opinions on me and always use a magnifying glass to find fault with what I do------find faults within the eggs. This is simply getting a bargain and being nice.

I have my own job during the day and have always been financially independent, so I don’t have to rely on your son at all, and I have never lived on your son’s salary. Moreover, my ability to make a living today depends on me. The education my parents gave me, and my own ability to continuously learn and grow.

So I can’t bear the thought that the money I earn must be contributed to “your family” as a matter of course, and then when I spend the money I earn, I still have to look at your face. It’s unreasonable!

I don’t owe you, nor do I need your support, nor have I taken a dime from you. I can respect your opinion, but I can’t let you make the decision.

So I want to tell you frankly and clearly now:

I am paying the electricity bill, so you are not allowed to have any objections when I turn on the air conditioner to sleep in the scorching summer. I work, and sleep quality is important to me.

Also, "Buddhas need gold, people need clothes." How many sets of clothes and shoes I want to buy are all my business. Please remember, these are all made with my own money.

I have my own rules for spending money. If you want to take care of it, just take care of your son's money. I use my ability to work hard to earn money, and I really don't want to have to look at your face.

Moreover, don’t always think how great your son is. If I went out to work without me, do you think you could have traveled to Europe for two weeks last year? Where did the money come from?

I often think that you really don’t mean anything to me. If you mean anything to me in any formal way, you are just my husband’s mother. All your kindness and credit are on him. I want to repay you. It's him, and the only ones who can ask me to repay you are my parents. If my parents pick on your son like this today, would you feel comfortable? And how much can your son meet their requirements?

So, if you want to eat fruit in the future, please ask your son to cut it for you, because this is what he should do.

Ask your son to wash his clothes too. After all, you have washed his clothes for more than 20 years (I have never bothered you with even a pair of socks).

If you want to see a doctor, ask him to get off work early and take you there... I don’t want to be deducted for perfect attendance all the time, and when I have a cold, you will sneer at me and laugh at me because I am in poor health, so you are sick. At that time, I couldn't express much sympathy.

In short, he should be filial to you, and I want to give my filial piety back to my parents who gave birth to me. If you want me to do it for you, then you must at least shut up that picky mouth and be grateful, because I don’t owe you anything. I do it for you because you are my husband’s mother. That’s all. That's all. If he hadn't been my husband, do you think you would have had this honor?

Also, you should read the news more. Now is the age of "housework". Since you don't have Pay my salary and you will laugh when I do it for you!

Finally, when I write this letter to you, you will definitely think that I am rebellious, but people respect each other. I treat you on this basis. If you can't respect my feelings, even if I give in because you are an elder, I still have to make the bottom line clear.

You will say, "Being a daughter-in-law must be reasonable," but I want to refute you here. I was never raised by you, and I don't owe you anything, and I have given you my best. Tolerance and respect, the rest to learn is on your side.

Daughter-in-law

XX, XX, 20XX

Sample letter to mother-in-law

Dear mother-in-law:

Hello!

Every time you come to my house these days, I see you washing our clothes and folding them on the bed. You also cook for us. You are so busy with this and that. It's hard work! To be honest, I feel very sorry. I am very grateful to my mother-in-law for her meticulous care for us. I am afraid that you are tired. Really, we just hope that you will be healthy and live a long life. Your voice and smile always appear in my mind.

Regarding our house purchase, we want to buy a slightly larger house. Although we have a larger loan, we believe we can afford it. Finally, I chose a small two-bedroom apartment with 79 square meters, which at least has a living room. Although the house is older, it is cheap. We have bought the house we want, and the price is within the range you considered. How could I think that the money you gave me is too little? In fact, it’s too late to thank you.

You said that I am not considerate in my daily greetings to you. This is because I am not doing well. In fact, I I have been working hard, hoping that adults will not remember the faults of villains.

There is no husband and wife in the world who don't quarrel. He never said a good word when he was angry (me too), which caused trouble for you old man again. It is inevitable that we young people are not thoughtful about things. I hope Mom will forgive us. Please forgive me if I have any mistakes. Give advice.

In the morning, you picked up the eggs for your son and put them in a bowl, while mine was placed on the edge of the bowl. Also, the price difference between the clothes you bought for me and the clothes for your son is a bit big, isn’t it? Ah? Seeing that you have prepared everything for your son, to be honest, I really envy you to be your son. One day, I went to the supermarket and bought some light soy sauce. When you were dipping the dumplings, you said you don’t need this because it’s not a dipping sauce. (I have never differentiated between light soy sauce and soy sauce before, but it says that it is used for cold dressing and dipping. Why can’t you listen to your son’s explanation to you?) When I talk to you, you basically don’t respond. , I don’t know why you don’t like to hear it. I feel really sad. I always feel like you don’t treat me as a family member. I don’t know what I did wrong. Mother-in-law, no matter what, I am still your daughter-in-law? You have to tell me! I am happy to be good to him, and I am happy to be good to me. I just hope that you will treat us the same and don’t have any differences. Heart

That day, I said: "Mom, did you check whether the dumplings were cooked?" You asked me back: "How did you cook the dumplings before? Can't you tell me what the reason for the dumplings to be?" Are you familiar? I respect your mother-in-law’s personality, but you should also respect mine? I hope you will treat me better in the future. It would be great to be polite and live in harmony as a family! What can I do to prevent you from not Feeling comfortable. Can you tell me what I should do? Please give me more advice, thank you!

Sincerely

Salute!

Daughter-in-law

XX, XX, 20XX