Let San Xiao back down.

First, women should love themselves at all times, and the more frustrated they are, the more they should love themselves;

A woman who doesn't even love herself has no right to get more and more lasting love from men. Of course, I'm not saying this to make women selfish, regardless of other people's lives. It is to teach them to feel sorry for themselves, to be confident, to improve themselves, to have themselves in their hearts at all times, and not to foolishly regard themselves as accessories of men.

A considerable number of women's marriages are unfortunately caused or influenced by not loving themselves. Especially when a man shows a little slack or indifference to her, she will be even more ignorant of loving herself. My heart will become empty and less confident, so I will be broken and unkempt, thus accelerating my aging and strengthening my "tired" signal in men's minds. This forms a vicious circle. Without the mistress outside, you are defeated by yourself.

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Second, never give up your favorable terrain as a wife, and you should take defense as the attack;

Compared with the mistress outside, I always think that my wife occupies the right place, the right time and the right place in emotion, society and time logic. Under normal circumstances, as long as we can choose favorable terrain at the right time, do not abandon the city to attack easily, and take defense as the attack, we are likely to win.

Those women who can't hold their breath and try to "convince people with reason" and "crush people with momentum" can shout a few words on the surface to attract some people to watch and get sympathy and support from several people. In fact, she has lost the most important person and position. This person is her husband, and this position is her integrity and tolerance as a wife. If we make such noise, our rights will become unreasonable, and self-defense will become an attack, and the consequences are often uncontrollable.

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Third, learn from your opponent moderately and change what can be changed;

Maybe the two points I mentioned earlier are just a defense way of internal strength cultivation. However, knowing yourself and yourself is invincible. You have to know what your opponent is like and what her strengths are, so that you can decide how to deal with it. Obviously, the best and most effective way is to study. Learning from the mistress who seduced her husband seems cruel on the surface, but it is actually a kind of wisdom and self-reflection. It is human nature to make mistakes. Since ancient times, no one is perfect. As long as it is useful to yourself and can improve yourself, there is no shame in learning from anyone.

Of course, what I emphasize here is moderation, not letting you give up your principles and positions, but letting you do something you can, or something you could have done better, which you can change through hard work.

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Fourth, if the obstacles are ineffective, it is better to blow air to accelerate the oxidation of "apples";

There is a kind of victory called winning without fighting. There are two key points in this victory, that is, time and letting the other side disintegrate from the inside. He and Xiao San, whether because of passion or love, can't escape the test of time in the end. Time will give them the answer. The secular world, which is more unfavorable than you, will give them the resistance they deserve and make their feelings more fragile and short-lived because of immorality. To tell you the truth, since then, this kind of feeling is mostly unmatched by your love cycle with him.

Of course, few women can have this kind of mind and endure this kind of waiting, because women's youth does not allow it. Therefore, we should take some actions, even if we blow a breath on the rotten apple with external force, it may accelerate its oxidation. However, this kind of "blowing breath" doesn't mean that you really blow at her. I suggest you blow it to your man and, if necessary, to his parents. This boasting is not all nitpicking, but also flattering.