Wechat about middle-aged women, what will make women like you more?

Middle-aged women have gained a life experience and a clear understanding of themselves. They left a unique footprint in the long river of years and lived a completely different life.

Some men love a middle-aged woman and always think that they don't like romance and aestheticism like young girls, but prefer to express themselves directly. Therefore, men often choose to say "I like you" on WeChat, but the ending is awkward. Women not only disagree, but think that the other person is just talking, not showing their true feelings, and is not worth relying on.

Once a reader left a message saying that there was a male friend on his WeChat who had known him for many years. Although I am usually busy and don't meet often, I will keep in touch on WeChat occasionally.

Suddenly one day, this male friend sent her a WeChat saying, I like you, let's be together!

Seeing the information sent by the other party, she was a little confused and thought, what is this? I'm not even your close friend, but I'm not needed now. Do you really like me or do you have other purposes?

From then on, she broke up with this man. In her opinion, the other person doesn't really like himself, but has other plans. He is not young, but he really can't afford to waste it. He still hopes to find a reliable person to live with.

In fact, flirting with middle-aged women on WeChat and saying "I like you" are too general. Women who say these words like you better.

1 Say something that often gives substantial care and love.

As we mentioned just now, middle-aged women have their own experiences and past, which are different from young and ignorant girls. In their hearts, although they still have a desire for romance, in real life, they need a man to live with them.

Therefore, what they value more is the care and love from life and work, which we can understand as substantive care, so as to get more goodwill from each other.

The so-called substantive discourse is to start with the specific details of the other person's life, rather than saying "have a good rest and pay more attention to your health" out of thin air.

Zhang Lei likes older Sun Xi, and has never had the courage to tell her, just silently caring for her.

What happened to Sun Xi in her life? Zhang Lei not only met her for consultation, but also helped her analyze and gave her advice on WeChat.

When Sun Qian was uncomfortable, he would ask what the disease was, and then give specific care, which made Sun Qian very moved.

In fact, speaking substantive words of concern is a good way to integrate yourself into each other's lives, form trust and dependence, or strengthen the intimate relationship between two people.

Therefore, when you like someone, don't often say things like "drink more water and eat well" on WeChat, integrate into each other's life, and give targeted and substantial care according to her actual situation. I believe that the feelings of two people will become closer and closer.

Give more understanding first, not blame first.

Middle-aged women are eager for the care, understanding and tolerance of close lovers. They have experienced too many setbacks and sufferings before, and they need a man who can tolerate themselves most.

Therefore, when a man sends a message on WeChat, don't feel that the other person has done something wrong. Direct opposition from the other party is the best responsibility.

In fact, empathy, everyone will not take the initiative to make mistakes, but the premise is that there are many reasons such as incomprehension and inconsideration, so don't blame easily, and give more understanding is the best way to communicate.

For example, you can say: Don't be sad. I know you didn't make this mistake on purpose. I believe everyone will make such mistakes. Now, let's discuss how to make up and solve it. what do you think?

In fact, when you communicate with caring and understanding words, the other person will trust you more and tell you more truth, which will bring the relationship between two people closer and closer.

Giving understanding is the greatest love, and giving understanding can make the other person feel safe. In fact, middle-aged women look strong on the surface, but they are also very fragile inside. They don't lack opportunities to know their male partners, and they don't lack people who know them best.

3 indicates an arrangement for a specific life, not an illusory prospect.

When young girls just step into love, they hope to have the touching feelings of "the end of their tether, the harmony between heaven and earth" and the pursuit of romantic feelings. They may think that it is most important for two people to be happy together.

When people reach middle age, whether they are bound by age or have past experience, at this moment, their inner hope is to pursue a stable and plain life, and it is enough to have a bosom lover.

So, if you like a woman, don't talk about some illusory prospects frequently on WeChat, and talk more about your current specific life arrangements.

For example, you can often tell each other about the rewards of your work progress, your study experience, or what achievements you have made in peacetime, and how you arrange your lives.

Doing so will make the other person feel that you are not only "three-minute enthusiasm", but that you really care about yourself and are really a man with a plan for life.

Yes, they prefer a person who has a plan for life and can meet people in reality, rather than just bragging to convince people.

In fact, behind these words is to let her see your intentions, seriousness and responsibility, which is enough.

The above is what we said about flirting with middle-aged women on WeChat. What we want to say is more touching and makes the other person like you.

Behind these words are the details of life, the performance of sincere treatment, and a way for men to pay attention. In this way, let the other person see that you really care, really like and really love her. After all, for middle-aged women, time is the biggest enemy and age is the threshold. They don't want to find someone who can't be together for a long time. Short-term feelings can't hurt, but long-term companionship is what you like.

Therefore, if you really love someone, you must touch her with sincere efforts, practical actions and concern for the other person's life!