What do you think of living with your parents after marriage?

If conditions permit, it is best to live separately:

1. The couple's private space is free and relaxed!

2. With contradictions, they are easier to solve and willing to compromise!

Do housework by yourself, so everyone should have a strong participation. If you can't do it, you will have a stronger desire to study together!

4. Without parents' daily care and nagging, the world of two people will be sweeter!

5. It's difficult to have children, but both of them can bring them, and the children will not be too spoiled or overbearing [laughs]!

In short, each has its own advantages: living with parents, eating and drinking, housework, children, being free and unrestrained, but accepting, enduring and listening ... [Laughter] [Laughter]!

I am a man, and I don't want to live with my parents after marriage, let alone how the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will develop. I don't want to live with them myself. I haven't saved much money yet, otherwise I will definitely buy a house outside and live by myself. Because my parents are too strict with me, they still want to control my feelings. I have lived in this home for more than 20 years since I was a child, and I don't feel at home. During the Chinese New Year last year, I wanted to stay at home for a few more days because of the epidemic. After all, Zhejiang is also quite serious. In my room, before going to bed at night, they all go to my room to make rounds to see if I smoke secretly and then give me a warning. There are many more, so I won't elaborate. I couldn't take it anymore, so I went out early. I just want to save more money to buy a house that really belongs to me, and then live alone and be quiet. Get married when I meet someone I love and someone who loves me.

Two generations had better not live together. Isn't there a saying that the most suitable distance between parents and children is the distance of a bowl of soup? Parents should not live too close to their children, let alone live together.

The living habits of two generations are different. After a long time, there will be many contradictions and family relationships will be scarred. Think about it, the young couple just got married and still need to run in with each other. Running in with the life of the elderly will make the family atmosphere extremely tense.

Then the distance between a bowl of soup will not cause too much friction, and we can always care for each other and take care of each other, which is very warm.

It is not who has a good temper but who has a bad temper, even if the upper lip touches the lower lip. There are too many trivial things in life, and everyone thinks and does differently, so it is easy to have differences, so it is best to avoid suspicion and try not to interfere.

So cohabitation is not recommended.

. . First of all, because the conditions of family and family members are different, there are different views. In the past years, the most important thing is that four generations live together, and living with everything is the best symbol. The society is different now. The real society is constantly changing, followed by changes in the way people get along with each other. Great changes have taken place in the knowledge renewal of civilized society. Nowadays, people have lost their traditional sense of moral bottom line. Furthermore, with the entry of western culture, unprecedented historical changes have taken place, which are mainly manifested in the idea that everyone has become a small family, the change of social spiritual civilization has become a self-reliant lifestyle that respects the independent rights and interests of individuals, and the free and independent lifestyle from a big family to a small family is different. Everyone wants to be his own master and live alone with the other half. Therefore, modern young people or old people want to live alone with their other half. In this way, young people have free space for young people and old people have free space for old people. It is also because of the changes in society and the changes in people's independent rights and interests.

Personally, I don't think it is unfilial to try not to live with my parents. If conditions are good, I can buy another set nearby. If conditions do not permit, I will live separately, so as to avoid all kinds of troubles. After all, the current social situation is in front of us, and it is often possible to live together temporarily. After a long time, all kinds of problems came out, especially the woman. After her marriage, her parents are also blocked, which may affect her married life in serious cases. Among them, men play a great role in mediating up and down and sacrificing themselves. We should not only stabilize our daughter-in-law, but also coax her. In fact, it is very simple to say, but it is not so easy to do. I am the second child in my family, and the relationship between my parents and my sister-in-law is very good. My brother played a big role in the middle. Many times, what he does is tolerance and understanding. After all, let the ladies do it, and let the younger generation respect the elderly. what do you think?

Better not! The best way is to keep the distance between a bowl of soup, which is convenient for taking care of each other and gives both sides a relatively free and independent space!

Of course, the above is the ideal state. Many young people who work hard in big cities may not be allowed to do so. After all, not everyone can afford to buy two suites in the same community or a similar community. Even if they buy a rent, the pressure is great.

I don't know why you live with your parents. Take care of the children? Filial piety for the elderly? Or both? Let's talk about filial piety first. If the elderly are healthy and flexible, most elderly people don't want to be confined to the small homes of their sons or daughters in the city. Many old people think that this is tantamount to imprisonment. At this time, it is better to "let the birds go into the mountains." If the elderly are in poor health, several children need to take turns to take care of them according to the specific situation. Of course, the way can be discussed. Some people who are inconvenient to go to town will have to pay more, and please ask brothers and sisters to do more filial piety for themselves.

Let's talk about raising children. In order to strive for the future, many young couples really can't take care of their children and families without working, and really need an old man to help take care of their children. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law brought about by this situation and the contradiction between two generations in children's education are almost unavoidable for every family around me. Of course, what can be coordinated in this situation is to coordinate as much as possible. If you can't coordinate, you'd better separate, which is good for both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family. However, the care of children after separation can only test the coordination ability between your husband and wife. Either you resign or you hire a nanny. It is really impossible to lower expectations for the future in order to tide over the difficulties before children enter school.

Or there is a third way, which is to facilitate the elderly to eat and let them work for themselves as free labor, so that they can continue to be a giant baby with clothes and make a living. I won't comment on this situation.

Some small partners live with their parents temporarily after marriage, and the biggest problem must be the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the daughter-in-law is a mother-in-law, it's easy to say, otherwise conflicts will occur frequently. Parents are their own parents, and home is the home where they have lived since childhood, but the daughter-in-law is a new member of this family. Living under the same roof, different living habits and age differences lead to constant friction between the younger generation and the older generation. As small as a bad meal, watch TV and grab the channel; Living with parents is easy to get angry, even if you are cynical, cynical or even strongly opposed to each other. For a son, whether to go to his mother or his wife is really a headache. Mother is her own mother, even if she does something wrong, she should be considerate as a younger generation; But the daughter-in-law is the person you want to love all your life, and it makes no sense for people to hold their breath all the way to your house. ...

Never live together. A generation has a generation's point of view, and each generation has different life backgrounds and different requirements for life. My colleague's in-laws are educated youth. Now we eat less oil and salt, and everything is subject to the most economical standards. If we live together, there will be friction and fire. Living apart and keeping a distance, so that you have your own space, the whole family will be very harmonious. It is also very good for the growth of children. Especially in educating children, different generations have different ideas, and many families have broken up because of cohabitation. So many contradictions have intensified that everyone is unaware of themselves. It is inevitable to break this balance, and eventually the child will get hurt. ...

You'd better not live with your parents Parents should also consciously quit their children's families after marriage! There are too many contradictory factors! Please give me an answer. Give a good amount!

Try not to live with your parents after marriage, so that the young couple can have a good time and environment to live their own lives, form their own small family lifestyle and increase their viscosity! When you have children, you will inevitably stay with your parents and take care of them. If you have more contact, you may live together. At that time, your parents will be more integrated into your family life. At that time, your relationship will be relatively stable and the contradictions will be reduced a lot!