Daughter bought lipstick. Tell me about it.

MengMeng, my aunt's cousin, just graduated from university last summer and works in Qingdao. This time she went home for the New Year. She bought a Spring Festival gift for her aunt with the money she earned. My aunt sent a circle of friends with more than 600 words. I read every word and tried to write it down without changing it.

I control and control, but I still can't help but think of the gifts my daughter gave me during the Spring Festival: Estee Lauder cosmetics and Lancome lipstick, the scarf of my smoggy blue coat, the red envelope sent to me on 20 18, and the caramel cashmere coat suitable for my skin color (my daughter's eyes are white and caramel color is popular now, and she says that my mother is more stylish in this dress [shh].

My daughter said that my mother worked hard for a year and deserved it. In the future, she will be responsible for all my clothes. I only nodded happily and said yes

Looking back on my daughter's growth process, because her mother and I are lazy, there are more opportunities for children to start work. Because her mother and I are very tough, we don't hide all the difficulties from her, so our daughter is more responsible.

I remember that in 2009, when my child was still in junior high school, I took my child to Beijing for a foreign teacher's class. The cost of our course is 7000 yuan for three days (the cost of such a course is already very high in 2009), so we don't consider food and accommodation. I explained my point of view to my children. My mother doesn't want to buy you brand-name clothes, a good mobile phone and a luxury car in the future, but she is willing to spend more than two thousand yuan every day to let you learn something. This is the difference between your mother and other people's mothers. Later, the child happily went to Beijing to study and became a teaching assistant in later courses. Now think about what happened at the beginning. I didn't mean to, but it should help the children.

Every time I talk about my bad work and disappointing my children, my daughter will say that you are a mother for the first time and you are doing well. You have given me the best you can. My daughter's generosity makes me try to be a good mother in the future.

20 17 I reported to my daughter what I had done. My daughter praised me as [shy] [shy]. My daughter and I conceived the grand blueprint of 20 18 together, and she gave me very pertinent advice. It is said that children are worried about thousands of miles away. I only want my daughter, not worry! May all our wishes come true on 20 18!

This is something a mother can't help sharing. She is the same as other mothers, but different. It is also her love for her daughter. The difference is that she is more honest and open-minded than other mothers.

After seeing the praises and messages from friends circle, my aunt sent such a passage, which touched me again. I have always been very much in favor of my aunt's education method, and I am very grateful to her for letting me understand this before I became a mother:

Seeing more than 100 likes and more than 40 messages touched me again! Dear friends, I understand that real life is better than all kinds of chicken soup for the soul. The happiness of parents does not need children to be rich or expensive, nor do they need all kinds of famous universities. In fact, as long as children are physically and mentally healthy, live independently and have their own goals in life, parents should give their children less worry and more blessings!

My daughter failed in the postgraduate entrance examination and decided to work. I support it. This year, she told me that she still wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination and understand her direction. I support it. I support the children to decide which school to go to and which city to stay in! What I can do is not to control my children in the name of love, nor to indulge them in the guise of respecting them, nor to be fettered by them in the future.

I know that many friends' children are better than my daughter's, but they are all other people's children, not mine. I am happy for other people's children and proud of my children! I like children to talk to me with psychological focus (she has never studied focus). I prefer my daughter to go straight to the subject in a few words when something bothers me, which makes me feel suddenly enlightened. I studied psychology for many years, and my daughter only studied for one month, and was admitted as a third-level psychological counselor, but I feel that she is my teacher and a natural psychological counselor. In fact, it is true that every child is a teacher of his parents, and every child has his own strengths. It depends on how our parents enlarge their children's strengths and how to let go of their concerns and control! Thank you again for your attention!

My aunt is the first college student in my family. I am deeply influenced by menstruation. I grew up listening to menstruation's inspirational story of "staying up late and studying hard" and "crying and reading" from my family. But now that I think about it, I was actually more influenced by menstruation when I grew up.

My aunt is a middle school math teacher. Her childhood dream was to be a teacher. She loved her job, so she became the best math teacher in the school. The school where she teaches is the best junior high school in the city, and she is also a good teacher in the city. She mingled with the students. Although she is older than the students' mother, there seems to be no generation gap between her and the students. And she said that with the growth of age, the relationship with students is getting better and better. Now even the parents of students have to ask her how to get along with their children.

To do a job, you should try your best to do it well. If you love it, you can do it well. This is your major. This is what I feel from menstruation. I agree with this and have been trying to do so.

After several years, menstruation met some difficulties. I once saw her frown. After a few years, she has aged a lot and lost a lot. To tell the truth, I am particularly distressed to see my idol so sad, but I have no ability to help her. I can only choose to trust and support her. I believe that she is not afraid of difficulties since she was a child, and she is also very smart. She is sure to pull through.

Things are getting better, but my aunt is more energetic, younger and more smiling than before. Yes, this is my aunt, and the more frustrated she is, the more brave she is.

My aunt had a bad temper when she was young, but now she looks like a different person. I understand that time brings more warmth and hope to some people than being old and helpless.

Because she not only has so much appreciation, tolerance and encouragement for her daughter, but also gives her freedom, which is the same for others. Her heart is "big" and can hold the advantages and disadvantages of others; Her heart is warm enough to keep people around her warm; Her heart is free, she listens to her own heart, and she doesn't ask others to obey. This is her in my eyes, a very comfortable person together, an open-minded, frank and wise mother.