What would you do if you faced your mother-in-law?

In dealing with people, we don't like those who have something to say, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I often guess because I don't understand what you mean. If I guess right, I'll be fine. If I guess wrong, there will be a gap. What would you do if you faced your mother-in-law?

At the end of the year, the company began to get busy. He and she have to work overtime every day and discuss asking her mother-in-law to help take care of the children for a month. He called his mother-in-law and said that her mother-in-law promised very readily. She was afraid that her mother-in-law would think that she only needed to take care of her for a week, so she quickly winked at him to make it clear. Mother-in-law knew it was a month, so she agreed, though reluctantly.

Although I don't quite agree with the way my mother-in-law takes care of her children, I am still very grateful. It's okay to take it once in a while. No matter how her mother-in-law takes care of her, she is more at ease than a stranger. Mother-in-law is a careless person and has no intention of learning new products. In this high-tech era, she has been using an old man-machine model. She has used her mother-in-law's intelligence many times so that she can pick up videos when thinking about her children, but her mother-in-law always refuses.

My mother-in-law often drops her mobile phone when she is doing things. In recent months, no one answered her phone to her mother-in-law. Later, she realized that it had fallen into the water. She asked him to buy her mother-in-law a waterproof and fall-proof one. He obeyed and bought one, but it was bigger. This time, after her mother-in-law came, she nagged her: "My mobile phone is good, but it is too big. It's inconvenient for me to do things in my pocket. " I told her this four times, and she said, do you want him to buy you a new one? My mother-in-law quickly waved her hand: "No, no, I didn't mean to. I just said it was so big ... "So she sent him a message asking him to change it for her mother-in-law. When the new mobile phone arrived, her mother-in-law was unhappy: "Why did you spend that money?" I'm just saying. Don't give me money in the future. "

My mother-in-law is about the same age as her mother, but shorter than her. She bought a down jacket for one of them online, because considering the height and her mother-in-law's usual things, she bought her a short one and a long one for her mother, but the two prices were the same. Mother-in-law's clothes arrived first. She asked her mother-in-law to try them on and see if she could make them.

Mother-in-law said she was a little thin. If she just dresses for fun and wants to do something, she will lose weight. She didn't understand her mother-in-law and asked again. Mother-in-law is still the same sentence: wearing clothes and working will definitely not work, and she has lost weight. She said she would change, but her mother-in-law quickly said no, which saved trouble. She said it was mainly comfortable to wear, and just as she was about to change it, she found that the trademark had been cut.

Mother-in-law told her to let nature take its course and wear it when it was too big. Later, my mother's clothes arrived, and my mother-in-law saw them. It was really nice. She also said that if she wore it herself, she would break her clothes. She vaguely felt that her mother-in-law was complaining that she bought her mother a better one. She explained that in fact, the price of the two pieces is the same, only the long one and the short one. Mother-in-law touched the dress and said, "Well, this dress is so long, it must be very warm." She was very helpless and told her mother-in-law, but she was afraid it would be inconvenient to do things. The mother-in-law added: "Your mother will definitely look good in it." I can't help it She also wants to buy a long dress for her mother-in-law Her mother-in-law said she didn't need to buy any more clothes. She felt a little headache, but finally she bought it for her mother-in-law.

In family communication, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is no need to talk like this, whether you mean it or not, but it will always make the listener uncomfortable. Is there anything you can't say out loud? What you are hiding is the origin of a contradiction.