Now there are more girls than boys in rural areas, and it is getting harder and harder to get a wife. Why are some people unwilling to be door-to-door sons-in-law?

This is because the door-to-door son-in-law has a hard time with his own face and is afraid of being laughed at by others. He has little say in the woman's home. Moreover, many women require their children's surnames to follow their wives, and men have no position in the family. A rural man chose to be a door-to-door son-in-law Many people will not make this choice unless they are really forced by life and have a poor family.

Although it is difficult for many older young men in rural areas to get wives now, few people are willing to come to the door to be son-in-law. There are many reasons for this. Being a door-to-door son-in-law in some areas does not mean that you don't spend a penny, but that the man has to get half or more of the bride price. The main reason for being a door-to-door son-in-law is the helplessness of marrying a daughter-in-law, plus the conditions for asking for money at home. Many people still want to borrow half or half of the "bride price" from the east and the west to be "door-to-door sons-in-law". It is better to sell iron in a pot and marry a daughter-in-law to come in.

The main reason why I don't want to be a door-to-door son-in-law is the surname. When the son-in-law comes to the woman's house, she must take her surname and have a double surname. The so-called double surname, the woman's surname takes the first place, and the second is the man's original surname. First name can only be the man's real name. In addition, there is also an agreement on the child's surname. The first child must take the woman's surname and the second child must take the man's surname. Surnames represent blood relations. Some men value their own or their children's surnames more, so they don't want to be door-to-door sons-in-law.

Another reason is that the woman has no position in her family. Not only at home, but also in society, everyone will think that she is a soft rice eater. Such a man, even if his wife is kind to him in the days after marriage, can't guarantee that his parents and family will not have an opinion of him. Men are very strong, and living with strangers is definitely not a taste. Faced with such a life, they will inevitably suffer a lot of grievances, so they will resist being a door-to-door son-in-law from the heart.