Is it reasonable for my girlfriend to ask 168000 not to bring back the bride price, but also to ask the man to have a house and a car?

This is not reasonable. The requirement of having a house and a car is not very high, but it is not reasonable to get a bride price of 1.68 million.

Nowadays, it is often seen that many girls give up love because their boyfriends don't give or give less bride price. In fact, whether or not to get married by bride price, how much bride price and zero bride price are not the key to the problem. The amount of bride price is not the root of the problem, but what is reflected behind the bride price should be taken seriously.

In addition, the bride price can also reflect whether this is insecure. She thinks that a high bride price can make her look good and bring her a sense of security. But this "greed" also reflects her inner inferiority and conceit.

However, the married man gives her a certain bride price, which is the minimum respect for the woman.

Many men's families refuse to give bride price or only give a little bride price because the young couple have lived together before marriage or are pregnant. In fact, they look down on this woman because their own families have chosen her. However, disrespect for the woman and her family is the beginning of the disharmony of the young couple's marriage.

Many couples have been married for many years, and when they quarrel, the woman will still dig out the problem of the original wedding bride price. In fact, as long as it is within a reasonable amount, the man may wish to be more tolerant. After all, there is only one life and money can be earned again, but the end of a love will make you suffer for a long time.

However, if the woman wants to get married with a huge bride price, it will be a bit difficult for the man. The bride price is just a formality, and it will hurt your feelings if you take it too seriously.

When men and women fall in love, live together, get engaged and get married, from strangers to acquaintances, from independent parties to a small family, they should respect each other and put love first. Boys should not always sympathize with their girlfriends on the surface. For example, they always remind their girlfriends to go to bed on time, eat more healthy food, remember to bring an umbrella in rainy days, and remember to drink more hot water when they are sick ... but they never give their girlfriends more truth in action.