What is the focus between colleagues?

In today's society, people who know how to deal with interpersonal relationships are successful, while those who don't know how to deal with interpersonal relationships run into a wall everywhere. In the workplace, interpersonal relationships have become very important. Sometimes colleagues will treat you to a cup of milk tea. You should say thank you to him politely and invite him to drink a cup of milk tea in a few days. This is how to deal with interpersonal relationships. As we know, people will get married, have children and so on in their life, all of which need catering, so this involves a problem of accompanying people. I believe many people will worry about how to solve this problem. On second thought, I think there are still many situations. I'll tell you what's important between colleagues!

One,

If you have hosted a banquet before, it must have been hosted by your colleagues, so you should have a clear record at that time so that you can check it later. The money you give to your colleague must not be lower than what he gives you. If he has a good relationship with you, you can increase it appropriately. It doesn't matter. If there is no such contact before, then you should discuss with other colleagues how much money they give, and everyone will give it uniformly, otherwise it will make others think wrongly.

Second,

Another situation is to see what your colleagues are celebrating at the banquet. If it's a wedding, of course, you have to pack more money. If it is a child's full moon, then the money can be moderately less, and different money can be given according to different situations.

So, has anyone else encountered such a situation? How do you all pay? Let's talk together!