The meaning of broken plates

Get up naturally around 6:45, wash up and hang up the towel.

Nine: Mom, has the steamed bread been steamed?

Me: It's steamed.

Nine, I have to bring my own steamed bread to the table. He's going to get the splint tools. My first thought was to refuse. I said, mom, come on. I'm going to take the plate directly. I'm not very afraid of scalding.

Nine is to do your own thing. I realize that children should be allowed to do it themselves and experience the taste by themselves. I stopped and watched the child's every move.

Nine, the tools for clamping plates are covered with spoons. If you don't take the spoon out, it will be difficult to take it out.

Nine is a little angry, and her mother-in-law wants to help. I stopped her and said, let him do it himself.

Me: Nine, look. See what's going on.

Nine began to worry, and the action became so big that all the furniture shelves were knocked down. Nine ran away. I lifted the furniture shelf, took out my tools and said, OK.

Here, I see the place where children are incapable. Because they are not tall enough to reach the tools. )

Nine went back to the kitchen and held the plate with tools. The tool is unstable in holding the plate. Number nine is going to hold the plate with his left hand. Because the plate was too hot and the clamp was unstable, the plate fell to the ground and broke into pieces. Nine angrily threw the tools into the trash can and said, what is it? Nine ran into the bedroom sadly and began to cry. I took out my broom and cleaned the scene.

I wanted to comfort Jiu, but later I thought he could heal himself, regardless of his emotions. I believe he can handle it.

It wasn't long before nine came out and said, you all fell to the ground. How can you eat?

I said: you can tear up the part that fell to the ground and throw it away, and eat the rest.

He grumpily picked up two steamed buns and said, good! Eat!

I watched him break the steamed bread and come to the dining room. I saw ceramic chips on the steamed bread. I picked up the steamed bread and threw it into the trash can. My mother-in-law is not feeling well. I said, it's a good thing I didn't eat it. How dangerous that would be! Nine, throw the rest into the trash can, too.

Me: Nine, do you want to eat the porridge left over from last night? He agreed. Hot porridge, eat it.

Me: Nine, mom found that you adjusted quickly and well today. This is your progress. In other words, you may have been crying for a long time. Today, you went to the bedroom and cried for a while and then came out. You are very resilient. This is the resilience of life! The more resilient life is, the stronger it is. Great! Although the plate is broken, my mother thinks it is meaningful to break the plate, so that I can see your progress and you can handle your emotions well.

To tell the truth, my mother doesn't like to use that tool to clamp plates, because I think the clamp is unstable and it is easy to break plates when I use it, so I didn't use that tool behind my mother. I think you want to use this tool because you have seen your mother-in-law and grandfather use it.

Nine: Yes.

Me: Well, good. You are very observant and will learn from others. Very good! Why doesn't mom stop you from using tools? It is also important to believe in your own experience.