With your second child, is your relationship getting better or worse?

Hello everyone, I am Da Tong Xiao Ai, and I am very happy to answer this question: With your second child, is your relationship getting better or worse?

I am the father of two children. The eldest child is 14 years old and the second child is 5 years old. Let me tell you how I feel.

My lover and I were in a free relationship. We got married a year later, and our daughter was born a month after the wedding. The joy of newlyweds and the honeymoon period are not over yet, and a new life is ushered in. This joy is indescribable.

After my mother-in-law helped my lover finish confinement, I accompanied my lover in my hometown to raise the child until he was 3 years old. In the process of raising children together, bumps and bumps are inevitable, but this is the process of us growing and changing ourselves, and it is also the process of getting to know each other again. It gives us a new understanding of love, and our feelings are getting stronger and stronger. good.

When Dabao was three years old, he was entrusted to his mother-in-law, and then my wife and I went out to work. Without the constraints of children, we have returned to the sweet world of two people when we first fell in love.

Later, when Dabao was nine years old, we took him to school. I went to work, and my wife took care of the child and prepared for the second child.

When Dabao was ten years old, Erbao was born. Now that we have both children, we all feel extremely happy, but we feel the pressure is getting bigger and bigger.

Due to physical reasons, my parents are unable to help take care of the children, and my mother-in-law has to take care of the children for my brother-in-law, so we take care of the two children ourselves.

In this way, after we had our second child, the focus of our lives was all on the child. In order to take care of the child every day, the world between us gradually disappeared over the years. But I believe that when the children grow up, we will have our own time again, but this will be a long process of practice. Even so, our relationship will get better and better, and each other will become more and more important in our hearts.

Finally, I feel: No matter how beautiful the love is, it will eventually have a dull day. We are all ordinary people who eat the fireworks of the world; no matter how passionate the relationship is, in the daily life of daily necessities, it will gradually change. Indifferent, it becomes the most important person in life; no matter how perfect love is, it will gradually fade away and become an intimate relative after years of wear and tear.

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