How should parents educate their children to steal money? Try to be rational and don't beat and scold.

When living conditions are good, parents naturally want to give their children a better life, even if they occasionally have unrealistic wishes, they will find ways to satisfy them. Because most families are only children, parents want to give them more care, and material is the best way to express it. Even so, there are still children who "steal money", which is unacceptable to parents.

I believe that most parents will be particularly angry at such behavior, and they will take money from home when they have given their children as much money as possible. At the moment when children were found stealing money, many parents were "anxious" and immediately began to beat and scold. However, parents who beat and scold their children are really "stupid", because it is useless to beat and scold, but it will stimulate their children's rebellious psychology.

Undeniably, the act of "stealing money" is really wrong, and parents can't condone it, otherwise the future trouble will be endless. However, if you want your child to get rid of bad habits, it is not enough to punish or beat and scold. This is a phenomenon of "treating the symptoms but not the root cause". Especially for older children, parents should pay more attention to education and prevent them from taking detours.

You know, parents who choose to beat and scold their children, your education method, they are hard to give in, but they will be afraid. In the final analysis, the source of children's fear is the "tools" in their parents' hands, not their parents themselves. Needless to say, it is difficult for children to realize their mistakes and naturally they will not feel guilty. For parents, such education is meaningless, but it will encourage children's rebellious behavior.

1, listen to the reason.

Suppress your inner anger and let your mood calm down first. After all, the child's "stealing money" behavior has already happened, and it won't help if parents get angry again. The focus now should be on patiently listening to the children's voices. Everything happens for a reason. Since children steal money, there must be a reason for stealing.

Communicate with your child in a relatively gentle tone and wording, let him put down his fear and try to open communication channels. Only by asking the child why he stole money can he be better educated, because it is more effective to solve the problem.

Step 2 show your attitude

Tell the child sincerely and firmly that his parents don't like him stealing money, and others won't like it. If you come to collective life in the future, children with "criminal record" will be hard to be liked and accepted by everyone, and may eventually become the object of exclusion. Many children don't know their parents' attitude, so they constantly test the bottom line.

Instead of this, it is better to tell the child directly and let him understand his parents' attitude. It's no use preaching too much. Many times children care more about whether their parents like it or not. Children are willing to try to correct behaviors that parents don't like or even hate.

3. Protecting children

Even if stealing money is very wrong, parents should protect their children's self-esteem and face, and never "advertise" their children's behavior. Many parents like to expose their shortcomings, especially in front of relatives and friends, and will unconsciously tell their children about stealing money.

Although the child is young, he has a strong self-esteem and will feel embarrassed or even sad in the face of other people's comments. Even if they do something bad, children want to be protected by their parents, at least don't say anything. Only by protecting the child's self-esteem can he feel the care and respect of his parents.

Warm advice to all parents:

The reason why the child steals money shows that he has a sense of economic independence and wants to control money freely. For this, parents should give more encouragement so that children can know how to use money reasonably from an early age. So, don't punish, don't beat and scold, ask the reason.

Many children steal money because their parents are too strict, especially for boys. I always want them to understand the hardships of life, so "poor support" and strict economic control lead children to steal. Parents are advised to give their children pocket money reasonably and let him spend it alone, even if it is spent in one day.

Words and deeds have the greatest influence on children, so family atmosphere is particularly important. In life, parents should pass on good behavior habits to their children and let them understand the importance of honesty. At the same time, don't deduct children's pocket money. You should still have enough snacks and toys.

By the way, we should make rules to make children understand the seriousness of theft. Only by obeying the rules reasonably can we better protect ourselves from harm. If the child is found to have a pathological stealing mentality after repeated education, parents should take him to the doctor in time. Only through professional counseling can he be completely away from stealing.

"Steal needles when you are young, and steal gold when you grow up" is not a casual remark. Many children who steal in adulthood have already shown "stealing" behavior in infancy. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's behavior, and never indulge and take chances.