When you meet a lover, get married first, meet a noble person, and start a career first. What's behind it?

Self-reliance has no nobles, and self-cultivation has no lovers.

Marry first when you meet a lover, and make a career first when you meet a noble person. Self-reliance has no nobles, and self-cultivation has no lovers. It means that if you meet the right person, you can get married first, and if you meet a good master, you can work hard and achieve something. If you don't encounter misfortune, try to improve your value first.

Noble people, later generations regard it as a title for those who have helped themselves. If you can meet someone who helps you at some stage in your life, it means that things will go smoothly, and many seemingly difficult things will be solved, even emergencies can be handled well.

They can not only help us materially or spiritually, but also help us clear the immediate obstacles to a certain extent, and influence and change our lives subtly.

So the ancients thought that such an opportunity would never come again. Once you encounter it, you must firmly grasp it and never miss it. At this time, getting married can be put behind, starting a business first and then getting married.

Get married or start a career first?

Marry first when you meet a lover, and make a career first when you meet a noble person. This sentence still holds true today. If you meet the love of your life first, why not get married first? If the nobles come first, why can't they choose to get married first?

Marriage or career first is a multiple-choice question. No matter what choice you finally make, it has nothing to do with right or wrong. But remember, be responsible for your choice and your life! I hope everyone can find a lover who can spend their lives with you, and I hope our career will flourish.