What will you do if your children always think you nag?

Communicate face to face with children, speak concisely and preach less.

One of the biggest problems between children and parents is the generation gap, which is very easy to cause a huge gap between children and parents, which is why children always don't like what their parents say, because they always feel that their parents have fallen behind, so this phenomenon will occur.

In the face of children who don't like to call themselves, it is necessary to have a face-to-face communication with their children at this time, and exchange their ideas with them. You should tell your child your inner thoughts and let him know that the original parents are not calling to nag him, but to care about and love him and make him more acceptable.

Second, you should be concise. It's normal for children to have their own ideas. He is different from you. His time is different from yours. He may have his own arrangements and plans for time. If your phone is like cooking porridge, it will arouse his disgust. Therefore, it is best to communicate with children in one sentence instead of two hours.

Third, less preaching. Many parents always preach to their children when they call them. This is one of the reasons why children dislike listening to their parents' phone calls the most. When children grow up, they can't be disciplined as they were when they were children. They should be given freedom of thought and should not preach to children often. This is the most disgusting and taboo for children. Therefore, caring more and scolding less on the phone will be more helpful to our communication.

Generally speaking, children are parents' treasures, but we should also give them a chance to shine. Don't call him for everything and talk for a long time. You should know that distance can produce beauty, and so can the feelings of children and parents. Therefore, we must talk less nonsense and tell our children more practical things about the telephone, so that the children will not be disgusted.