How do parents deal with children fighting?

Children are naturally active, impulsive and emotionally unstable. It is normal for children playing together to have friction because of a little problem. At school, two children often fight, so how should parents deal with this kind of fight in problem children? I'll give you some advice.

First, if the child's behavior is excessive, we can temporarily separate the two parties or parties and calm them down as soon as possible. It is necessary to know that after a child fights, it is not only useless to stop the child's fighting behavior, but also invisibly encourages and strengthens the child's reckless thinking and behavior.

Second, when a child makes a mistake, parents should not blame the child too much, but should let the child bear the consequences and make him feel unhappy and even miserable at the same time. In this way, children will reflect on themselves, consciously make up for their mistakes and correct their mistakes.

Second, pay attention to appropriate restrictions. Parents should take care of fighting children. When you are in charge, you should be strict with others. If your child is really wrong, parents should ask the child to apologize to each other. Parents can accompany them, but they can't apologize for their children, because it is not the parents who are wrong, but the children. If parents apologize for their children, children will ask their parents to solve problems, become weak, and dare not face all kinds of problems in life. In the long run, it will inevitably affect the formation of children's good character and ability.

Fourth, after the children fight, parents should listen to what the children say and give them a complete account of what happened. If children fight at school, parents should communicate with teachers in time and listen to their opinions and suggestions. In order to solve the problem timely and reasonably, parents should strike while the iron is hot afterwards and guide and help their children. In fact, the source of fighting is personality factors or lack of social skills. On this basis, reminding and helping children to make some rules of the game and get along with each other can only work between them. This can reduce the probability of fighting again. Parents must set an example at ordinary times, teach their children the skills of communication and cooperation, and gradually shape their children's generosity and humility.