What is your attitude towards "well-matched" marriage?

The "well-matched" marriage emphasizes the matching of two people, which has a great impact on married life. Many times, when people talk about this issue, they feel that "well-matched" has made class consolidation more and more serious. Then some people have introduced poisonous chicken soup, saying that no one can improve their social status through marriage.

Indeed, there is an old saying that goes like a bamboo door with a bamboo door, and a red door with a red door. In the past, in the feudal society, "well-matched" was determined by the accumulation of family wealth of both men and women. Marriage does not just require two people to be in love, it also depends on the family situation of both parties, because in feudal history, status and class mobility were not strong, the social circle was very narrow, and there was no such thing as free love. In most cases, a rich man and a young lady meet and get married. In some literary works, the rich lady likes the poor scholar. At this time, the girl plays her role. Just like the matchmaker brought Cui Yingying and Zhang Sheng together. This is one kind, and the other is that the young master likes the girl. In most cases, this kind of situation does not have good results, because everyone seems to have always felt that this is too high-spirited, and it has become a fixed thought. It's like this in many TV dramas, where a poor girl falls in love with a rich boy, and the rich boy's mother dumps the girl with a face full of money and says: Leave my son.

I know a sister who is truly Bai Fumei. Not only her family background, but also her own abilities make many people admire her, and many members of the opposite sex pursue her. She had never been in love, and the first person she fell in love with was a young man who was studying at a music school, and she was a prosecutor. This incident soon became known to the family and they strongly opposed it. They said she fell in love with an artistic person on impulse and never considered her future life. I don't know if they really liked each other, but in the end the sister gave in under the pressure, and the boy she liked for the first time was voted out. She is now the mother of her child, and her husband was introduced to her by her family. He is a well-matched family, has a prosperous life, and treats her very well. I don't know if she is happy or not, but this is a marriage that many people think is a good match. I also can’t imagine whether she would be free if she wandered around with an artist or eloped.

This is a perfect match based on wealth accumulation. If two people are truly in love but cannot be together, it would be really sad. And I am more in favor of a good match in terms of ideology. Even if two people have very different incomes or other material aspects, but they have the same values, then I think they can get married. Because a person's values ??are formed by his family education and long-term practice. It would be too pitiful to not be able to love someone who drives a BMW without a villa. One day, class solidification will be broken, and everyone can love the person they truly love comfortably.