I hate long-distance relationships

Recently, it rains one or more times every day. The weather in the south is so capricious. When the wind comes, it rains. But unlike some time ago, the sun does not show much, which means there is no rain. It's so dry now, and the weather is not bad, so my mood naturally calms down. The most annoying thing in this life is long-distance relationships, bar none. I used to see thousands of lovers separated in two places, whether it was for survival or life, I always looked down on them from the bottom of my heart, because in my heart, all those who gave up their feelings for the sake of livelihood were Disloyalty to feelings is also a deception of life. You keep saying you are for love, but you betray love. You are dedicated to the future, but you cannot protect the present.

I once experienced a long-distance relationship for nearly six years. At that time, we basically had more than three phone calls a day, breakfast, lunch and dinner. This was the minimum amount, and it lasted for nearly six years, excluding quarrels of course. Every night, I would finish all the chores as quickly as possible, and then lie in bed as soon as possible. At that time, whether there was half an hour or an hour of lighting time in the dormitory, I can’t remember clearly. I was always the first one. A person who climbs into bed but is the last to close his eyes, because all the time has to be given to the person on the other end of the phone who is waiting for me to study for self-study. Until my classmates call me to stop and I have to hang up the phone, I use the most corny but still able While chatting on QQ mobile phone, I struggled to see the buttons clearly and the Internet speed was very poor, and said sweet words of love. At that time, I was very satisfied and happy, because I felt that even if I could only rely on radio waves to convey a little love every day In the dark night, all the air you breathe before going to bed smells like honey, sweet, and it will last until you fall asleep. At that time, I gradually stopped hating long-distance relationships, because the happiness that love brings me is far greater than the pain that long-distance relationships bring me. After all, I am a person who does not have high requirements and will be very happy if I am not careful. At that time, he would send me a lot of things, such as mobile phones, mobile phone cards, clothes, snacks, and Shuang Wai Wai. I don’t think there will be another person in this world who knows that my favorite drink is Shuang Wai Wai Wai Wai, only him. In the end, we met more and more time, and quarreled more and more. Relying on some of the first good memories and gratitude, I replaced wandering with waiting, replaced giving up with forgiveness, and replaced feelings with time. They staged various plots interspersed with making do and staying fresh, and the audience was large, because sincere acting is after all, it is easier to move people's hearts. There are too many stories here and I don’t want to repeat them. The emotional drama of life is like this. It is not enough to move the audience. After all, this is not a movie that depends on the box office. Moving yourself seems to be a means, but not everyone in the world is willing to be yourself. In the end, you will be moved no matter what. If you don't understand reality, reality will lock you in the cage of emotions. There is no point in crying, only the heart will die.

I hate long-distance relationships. They don’t make me see clearly once and for all. I live a life of “a little separation is better than a new marriage” and regard the so-called novelty as the continuation point of the relationship. I hate long-distance relationships. It took me five years to experience love that actually only lasts one year. The outcome was obvious, I lost miserably.

Today, I still hate long-distance relationships. Give up to lovers for love, give up mind for life, and give up opportunities for the future. Those who are wanton and wanton without reason are just reasons, excuses and steps. Everyone is busy, and no one has extra time, but there are one or two people who will check their mobile phones to see if there are any messages from you when you go to get a glass of water, because it is important. So, who is this person? client? boss? spouse? Mother? Or are you just thirsty? There are too many examples of this kind to list them all. Youth gives you the opportunity to be busy, not to use your busyness to denigrate the world, or even the entire life, or even the lives of others. Being busy aimlessly only results in the passing of time and nothing else.

We like to cry to others under the guise of long-distance relationships, saying "impossible" while still lying to ourselves. It will be fine after this period. Just imagine how many such periods there are in life? Maintain this habit and attitude, and you will find that at any stage, you will have to wait until you have passed this period. Subtle things will slowly flow into your bones, just like the principle that habits are formed by repeating a behavior for ten days.

Long-distance love is a way of love that I hate. I hope that after experiencing it many times, you can give me a complete love that will no longer be fragmented.