Why are some parents disgusted and angry about correcting homework?

Some parents are angry about correcting their children's homework for several reasons:

This is easy to understand. Correcting homework is a teacher's job, not a parent's. I am an old teacher, being reasonable and not close. Let's give a simple example. I teach Chinese, and the headmaster ordered me to change the math teacher's homework. Even if I resist, I will fly into a rage. For another example, you are tired from teaching at school all day, and you just need to have a rest when you go home. The superior department called you to help them work overtime to write materials. Are you angry?

The homework now is really different from before. It's difficult and complicated, and it's really not easy for parents to understand. Even if I give you the answer, you won't fully understand. If you are asked to correct your children's homework, you will probably be powerless, which is even worse. It's not just me. If I can do it, I can do it with my feet, but I can't, which shows my incompetence. Who can stand it? Just like a Chinese teacher, the headmaster asked him to take the class instead, and the math teacher asked for leave and just watched the class. He has to have a good math class, even if he is given a lesson plan, it is really difficult for people!

But why are some parents willing to correct their children's homework? Because that's because the children live up to expectations, and the homework is done like the correct answer, and there is nothing wrong. Parents are like drinking herbal tea in the dog days, and they are all happy. And some children fail to live up to expectations and write their homework wrong. Parents were not in a hurry, but when they changed their homework, they found that their children were so stupid that they went to grandma's house! How can this not make parents angry?

Therefore, teachers themselves still spend more time on snacks. If they are afraid that they can't correct too much homework, they should work harder on homework design and selection, and don't be too excited to arrange and be too lazy to correct. Push your homework to your parents, and you will end up at leisure, but it will aggravate your parents' confusion! It is not easy. Let's understand each other.

I hate it when parents revise their homework! Because I have a daughter in the third grade, we can understand when I am in the first grade. The child is still young, and the teacher is still very tired to manage 45 students. After all, at home, several of us can't manage one. At this time, we will help the children check and correct their mistakes, because it is not the same as what the teacher said. We can only say that we have to tell our children what is wrong and how to correct it. Homework is due the next day. Great, the teacher is very labor-saving, and later directly said in the group that parents should check the signature! As a result, the whole class's grades fell. Did the teacher tell you the wrong question when the child came back? Say no, parents check, correct mistakes, sign, isn't this self-deception? Why do you need such a teacher? Just talk about new lessons? Every time, I just try to do a quiz at the end of the mid-term and let the children recite it.

Now, parents should not only correct their homework, but also help them with their homework.

When my granddaughter went to kindergarten, she was lively and carefree. In the first grade of primary school, she carried a big bag of books and notebooks. What is even more frightening is that a lot of homework was sent to her parents' mobile phones, which made her very tired and didn't sleep at 10 at night. Kindergarten and senior one really feel like old and new society.

My granddaughter, who has just entered the first grade, has not learned a word. My son and daughter-in-law are working in other places, so the task of reading and tutoring homework naturally falls to me as a grandfather. There is homework at noon, homework at night, exercises, papers, Chinese and math after class. I have to race against time. When you come home from school and the meal is not ready, you have to let the children do their homework first. I read question by question, and she wrote word by word. I want to explain what I don't understand and correct it for her after I finish. I think the teacher is definitely not as hard as me.

I used to be a teacher. At that time, my homework was mainly done in class, and there were few extracurricular homework, which could be completed in an hour at most, and I didn't need parents' guidance to correct it.

It used to be one classroom to study, but now it is two classrooms. Is the amount of knowledge learned increased, or is the teacher pushing the teaching task to parents? Please comment.

So far, I have never asked parents to correct their children's homework, and I have never asked parents to sign their children's homework. But I understand the way other teachers check students' learning, and I also understand the resentment and anger of some parents.

It should be teachers, even young teachers, who ask this question.

The subject may wonder in his heart: as a teacher, we carefully educate 56780 students in a class every day, and we are tireless in teaching, but we can still be so responsible; Are you tired of tutoring one or two of your own children for a while and correcting your homework? Is your child your own?

It seems that I have to convince my colleagues.

You know, people's ideas are different, and each has its own specific circumstances.

After school this morning, I saw Tian's grandfather pick up the children at the school gate, so I hurried forward to say hello and inquire about the recent study.

This Han Yi student studied very well in the third grade. Very clever and beautifully written. I can't keep up with my studies in the fourth grade, and my homework often can't be finished. I know about their family. Now the children are at home with grandpa, so they always care and encourage him. I saw that his homework was not finished this morning, so I asked him what it was, because I specifically told him after school yesterday afternoon. He said that grandpa didn't cook for him last night, so he took him out for a drink and came home too late.

Seeing him standing at the door with his grandfather, I asked him if his grandfather really came home late last night, and his grandfather admitted it. I said with a smile, Han Yi is so smart that you shouldn't delay the children because of drinking. He nodded in agreement. But then he asked me, "Who is the English teacher? Why not let students go home every day? " ! In such a cold day, I'm anxious to wait for dinner at home! "

Do you see it? This is a teacher who doesn't understand or support your strict requirements.

If you ask him to correct the child's homework, first, he has no ability at all, and second, he has no patience. You should arrange such activities every day. Can a parent like him not express disgust and anger? It can be said that 70% to 80% of parents in rural areas are as uneducated (not derogatory) and impatient as this grandfather, and some are even worse than him.

As for the parents in the city? It may be better, but it is not absolute. My niece is a mother in her thirties. She worked as a teacher for a while before going into business. Now that her son is in the second grade of primary school, she often asks me to help her answer her son's questions through WeChat, including math questions and Chinese questions.

Some parents are office workers. After a day's work, they want to go to bed early. Now that the children have taken out their homework, the mood can be imagined. As I said in my previous answer, if this parent is unhappy at work during the day, or if another parent ignores the child, the mentality of the parent who counsels the child may be uneven.

I insist on not letting parents correct their children's homework and not letting parents sign their children's homework. This is one of the main reasons.

Of course, in spite of this, I still think it is very necessary for schools to assign homework to children, and I also think the joint efforts of parents and children are very important. It's just that some parents have no education and some have no time, so they are disgusted and angry. Our teachers should also understand them.

For these parents, besides good communication, you can also adopt different strategies for their children. For the sake of students and parents, it is too bad to have conflicts.

Let me talk about it personally.

Parents are very busy now. They have to work during the day, and they are already very upset. In the evening, of course, they have time to play mobile phones, play mahjong and watch TV, and also have time and energy to check their children's homework?

If it's not your job, why do it yourself? And parents have already paid the school. Since they have paid the school and sent their children to school, the school is of course responsible for the children's study! Now the school is looking for trouble, handing over homework to itself and shifting the responsibility that belongs to the school to itself. Is this reasonable?

If you don't help your child with his homework, you won't know his study. Once you check your homework, you will find how stupid your child is. Can you accept this result?

Therefore, I would think that his children's grades will not be much better! When you join your parents and enter the bottom of society.

Many teachers still speak from their own standpoint and have not fully understood where the parents' anger lies. There are still many teachers who seem to persuade their peers, but in fact they still ridicule their parents' low educational level. Some teachers say that they are meticulous in dealing with the problems of more than 40 children. Parents don't care about any children, asking if they are their own. It is because of these teachers that parents are anxious and angry. Up to now, I still can't figure out where the parents say the teacher is irresponsible! What parents are dissatisfied with is that after the teacher passed on a lot of work that should have been done by himself to the parents, he confidently labeled the parents with the same responsibility label as the parent school. Correcting homework and correcting children are all teachers' responsibilities. It is extremely irresponsible to pass them on to parents. Not only am I sorry for the teacher's name, but it is also not conducive to mastering the child's real level. I don't know if my class is good or not. What is the acceptance of each child? Where is it missing? How to make up for it? Nowadays, teachers regard their profession as an assembly line and try their best to reduce the difficulty and sense of responsibility. On the other hand, if every parent is so irresponsible for his career, what will society become? The builder asked everyone who bought the house to build two walls by themselves? Because you live in a house, you are not responsible? The police chased the escaped prisoner and let you rush ahead, because you were robbed. Therefore, teachers should not say how many children they face, but also have professional ethics and a sense of responsibility.

Correcting homework is the teacher's responsibility!

Many people say that parents are not responsible. Why can the former teacher do it, and now the teacher should give the job to his parents? Parents have corrected it, at most, giving the teacher a completely correct answer and creating the illusion that a child will do it. What's the point of making mistakes in real exams?

Well, some people say they can tell the children! Then, excuse me, parents can teach and educate people, but what do teachers need? The responsibility of parents is to cooperate with teachers and urge their children, not to do all the work of teachers. Parents are unprofessional at first, and it is easy to teach their children with emotion. In short, they can only help their children with their homework and teach them the truth of being a man. The acquisition of knowledge mainly depends on the teaching of school teachers. It is the master who leads the professional knowledge into the door, not the parents!

Although the present education is much more advanced than before, it has fallen into a vicious circle. Parents are critical of asking teachers to ensure the improvement of their children's academic performance without doing anything harmful to them. In the face of many naughty children, teachers can only choose to decentralize and not do anything to protect themselves, which leads to parents' pressure, and then go to the teacher to judge, and then the teacher is treading on thin ice and dare not take responsibility.

In fact, although there are many shortcomings in the past education methods, they all perform their duties. Teachers teach and educate people to ensure children's learning and growth in school, and parents do a good job in logistics to ensure good cooperation with teachers and schools. At least the children will not let go of themselves too much, too fearless, and even don't understand the meaning of life. Nowadays, children will die if they don't commit suicide, and their emotions are completely out of control, all of which are related to the educational phenomenon of excessive indulgence!

Children are their own, and parents' responsibilities are of course very important. But parents can't put all the work on them. As a result, parents are under too much pressure, and there are always times when things can't help but vent on their children or teachers. Therefore, it is suggested that every profession should respect its own work, do its own job well, and don't shirk responsibility because of fear of taking responsibility. Most parents still respect their teachers and will actively cooperate with them, because everyone's goals are the same, all for their children!

First, parents are busy. Now that parents are very busy at work, they really have no time to help their children check their homework. Especially for migrants, the couple take a child, their parents are not around, and both husband and wife have to go to work. It is a problem to pick up and drop off the children, which is one of the reasons for the existence of late care.

Second, there is too much homework. Too much homework causes children to do homework for a long time, and it is very late to finish homework. Then help them correct their mistakes and correct them. It is very late to finish all the homework, which will affect the children's rest. Parents are distressed by their children, and there will definitely be complaints.

Third, the level of parents is not enough. Nowadays, some children's homework is really hard to do, and some parents will do wrong teaching, and it is easy to complain when they are in a hurry.

Fourth, parents think that homework is entirely the responsibility of teachers. There are many parents who have this idea, and the number is still increasing. It is believed that after sending students to school, all children's studies are the teacher's business, as if they have nothing to do with their parents.

Fifth, some parents want to entertain themselves. The parents of primary school students are all young people and want to have fun. After a day's work, I am very tired when I come back, and I have to check my homework. Naturally, I am very upset.

Sixth, the status of teachers has declined and they are not respected. The relationship between parents and teachers has deteriorated, which does not rule out that some parents hate teachers, and teachers have long been disgusted with the homework assigned by teachers.

Parents are advised to cultivate their children's good study habits and correctly understand correcting homework. What teachers generally call "correcting homework" is to let parents check whether they have all finished it, without having to correct it one by one.

Schools are places to teach and educate people, and teachers are concrete executors to impart knowledge and cultivate talents. Therefore, since ancient times, children have the obligation to enter school and receive education when they reach a certain age.

Parents are guardians of their children. When children reach a certain age, parents also have the obligation to send their children to school for education, which includes all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor. One is to let children master more knowledge, that is, to change their personal destiny and serve the country through knowledge. Second, improve the quality of the whole people and improve their overall knowledge and moral level.

At present, most parents are engaged in various jobs. Of course, a few parents don't go out to work, but they must also send school-age children to school for education.

What parents do is at least to support their families and at the highest to contribute to socialist construction. Their work is also limited by time and labor intensity. After a day's work, they have to cook and wash clothes at home. It takes a lot of time to help children do homework, check homework, correct homework, etc. In this way, parents will inevitably be anxious and complain!

The main reason is that the school teacher did not consider the actual situation of parents when assigning this homework.

Most parents don't want to shirk their responsibility for the education and management of their children, but because they really don't have the time and ability to manage their children, and some school teachers will release a sentence, which will make parents even more sad.

Your child doesn't even care about his own school. In fact, behind this sentence is complaining that parents are accusing their parents. Which parent doesn't want to care about their children? What parents don't care about their children.

However, what is the reality? Everyone is running for life and family after work. If they have time, they will naturally care about and love their children. However, some people just work from morning till night, while others just don't have time to take care of their children. This is a state of fact, not an idea or a reason to shirk responsibility.

After a hard day's work, most people want to have a rest by themselves when they go home. If they spend a lot of time or beyond their ability to tutor their children, it will make people more irritable. I think this is the phenomenon proposed by the title.

Therefore, although education has become the result of the joint efforts of parents and schools, in fact, it should be carefully divided and carefully analyzed which parents have time and those who don't have time, and teachers should pay more.

This contradiction is not expected to ease in a short time, and may even become more and more serious.