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How hard is it for wild animals to stay at home?

In the expectation of parents, children all over the country have started school and returned to school one after another. A sudden epidemic has made this winter vacation unexpectedly long, and the epidemic has affected every family to varying degrees. In the early days, except for medical staff, soldiers, traffic police and sanitation workers, home became the position for most people to fight the epidemic. Later, students dropped out of school, and different families staged different stories: some were harmonious and full, some were sad and tangled, some were thrilling, and some even had extreme accidents. The epidemic situation is a mirror that reflects the world and the truth of the world. The beasts finally returned to the cage. After the epidemic, what did parents see on the day of close contact with their children?

Do parents have no time to spend with their children or do parents not know how to spend time with their children?

Some people say that a family education in China is an absent father+an extremely anxious mother+an out-of-control child. Dad always said that in order to support his family, he had no time to accompany his children. In the days when the epidemic was at home, parents were at home all the time. At this time, there is a lot of time. What is the quality of parents accompanying their children? Videos of parents accompanying their babies to write homework out of control frequently burst out in various groups.

There is a story: when my son was in the fifth grade of primary school, he asked his father with a math problem.

"Dad, I can't solve this problem. Can you tell me? "

"good!"

The question asked by the child is really a bit difficult. After reading the questions, tell the children and let them.

Try to do it.

However, the child still did something wrong.

"Never mind, Dad will tell you again-again!"

My son did the math again-again, but he still didn't figure it out.

"Never mind, let's come again!"

..... Dad, it's still wrong ... You told me twice, why can't I? ",the child is going to cry.

"Oh, the math problem of this kind of problem is really difficult. Look, car A is chasing car B again.

Car B meets car C again. In the fifth grade, the teacher told me eight times before I understood! "

"So this topic is really difficult? !

"Yes, but during the exam, these difficult questions are easy to open between you.

Distance! Come on, let's do it again! "

The fourth time, the child finally got it right!

"How are you, son? Dad asked the teacher to talk about it eight times, and you only used it four times.

Yes! Your understanding ability is twice as fast as dad's! "

My son didn't say anything, but he looked very happy and studied hard until late at night.

I can see the wisdom of my father from this story. We often say that the key to high-quality companionship lies in whether you are attentive or not. Whether to give the child what he needs from the child's point of view. Dad's patient and meticulous guidance for more than ten minutes is far more effective than an hour or two of impatient supervision, and it is also more effective than watching the mobile phone with the baby. Sometimes, we have to think about it: Are parents' words and deeds beneficial to children's physical and mental health? Still happy for yourself? The length of companionship is not the problem, but the attitude and mood of parents are the key.

Is there anything else for children to learn besides school culture classes? Life is full of learning.

During the epidemic, some parents thought that their children's study was delayed, and they were very anxious and dissatisfied. The epidemic has brought inconvenience and influence to our lives. Accept the real life, life is the Dojo of our practice. It's important to live a meaningful and interesting life at home! We should let children know what happened in life, how novel coronavirus came into being, how to prevent it, what impact it has on life, and why staying at home is to fight the epidemic and make contributions to the country. During this epidemic, some of us were lucky enough to participate in online activities in the community as psychological volunteers. In the isolated crowd, everyone also felt the hardship and difficulty of grassroots community workers! From throwing garbage, buying vegetables, taking express delivery, taking temperature, to instructions from superiors to appease the emotions of isolated people, it can be said that it is all-encompassing. We can also share our actions and feelings in the epidemic with our children.

For example: Zhong Nanshan, Li Lanjuan and Zhang Wenhong, people we respect, what are their feelings and wishes, and why are they so trusted and respected? What kind of influence Zhong Nanshan's father has brought to his growth can be discussed with his children. Zhong Nanshan began to learn English in his forties, and there was no obstacle to talk about the epidemic internationally. At the same time, we have seen the contest between military and science and technology from the epidemic situation abroad. This is something that children can't learn in the textbook of pattern and vision expansion. Children are beginning to understand that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. No matter how great the dream is, it will come true step by step, starting with every little thing at hand: class, homework, tidying up the desk and room, sports … With realistic experience and understanding, children will have a new and higher understanding of the significance of future learning!

In fact, it's not so hard for the beast to stay at home!