Talk about yourself happily.

In the past, I always wanted to be recognized by others, tried my best to please others and tried my best to live like others.

In the end, you will find that it is better to cherish and please yourself than to try to please others.

Only by listening to your own inner guidance and following your own heart can you meet your true self.

As a wise man said, "true happiness comes from inner satisfaction."

It is better to please yourself than to please others. A person's life is to live for himself.

1 Don't please everyone.

When you were young, you were always afraid of being isolated and alienated, and worried that your image would leave a bad impression on others, so you always tried to please others and wronged yourself.

After much experience, I gradually understood:

How big the world is, if there are people you like, there must be people who hate you.

You can't make everyone like you, and you can't make everyone satisfied with you.

In life, there is a kind of person called Mr. Nice guy.

They always keep a gentle smile, never refuse other people's demands, and even pay sensitive and suspicious attention to other people's actions and make things that serve others' psychology in advance.

But this kind of behavior of sacrificing oneself to please others often makes people more and more painful.

So, don't please everyone, be ten times better for those who are good to you;

People who are indifferent to you might as well turn around and leave.

Life is short, just a moment. If you always think about how to please others and live in their shadow, isn't it a waste of time?

Don't force what you can't do;

Say no to things you don't want to do.

Life is your own, and making yourself happy is the real life.

Making yourself happy is the best way to live.

He who pleases others is king, and he who pleases himself is king.

To please yourself, don't blindly oppose others, but learn to be yourself and live the life you like.

Once upon a time, a poet wrote many poems, but no one appreciated them.

The poet was very upset and asked the Zen master for advice.

So the Zen master pointed to the plants outside the window and asked, "Look, what flower is that?"

"cordate telosma"

"Why does it bloom at night instead of during the day?"

The poet shook his head to show his ignorance.

The Zen master said, "It blooms at night and nobody pays attention. It blooms just to please itself. "

The poet suddenly realized: "I know, one does not live to show others, but to live for oneself and be a meaningful self."

Please yourself, appreciate yourself, go your own way in a down-to-earth manner, and live a full day. When your bonus is full, you will shine.

Finally, you will find that if you please yourself and live a high life, all the beauty in the world will be close to you.

He who pleases others is king, and he who pleases himself is king.

I'd rather be alone all my life than go with the flow. Only by knowing how to please yourself can we meet a better self.

Making yourself happy is the best way to live.

Making yourself happy is the best way to live.

Master Jinghui said: "People like to pursue happiness outward, so they can only get the illusion of happiness, which is fleeting because foreign things are impermanent."

Nine times out of ten, we can't change many things for many people, but we can change our mentality and look at problems with different attitudes.

Don't worry all day, learn to please yourself and live a happy and fulfilling life every day.

Pleasing yourself, getting something for nothing, not pleasing the world and making yourself happy are the best choices in this life.

Once upon a time, two people traveled together and felt thirsty on the way. So, while drawing water, one person took out the golden cup and the other took out the earthen cup.

The person who holds the golden cup feels superior and naturally smiles;

People who hold pottery cups feel humiliated and inferior.

However, they forget that what they really need is water, not a cup full of water.

People who blindly want to be happy from the outside world are not qualified to live a good life.

After all, people come naked from birth and die naked at last. Living should not worry about what you don't need.

Life belongs to you, not to others. You shouldn't care too much about other people's opinions.

Please yourself, obey your heart and live for yourself.

Doing what you like and trying to make yourself look high is the fastest way to live.

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Trying to please others is a fool's job, and pleasing yourself is the focus of life.

If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

Happiness depends not on the sky, nor on the ground, but on yourself.

Living a good life is more important than anything else.

When we start trying to please ourselves without causing trouble to others, we really have ourselves and are really free.