Let's talk about the woman in charge of money.

Chatting with a few friends, talking about who will manage the money after marriage, some people say that the wife is good at managing money. After all, women's minds are more delicate and they can know every expense. Some people also object, saying that each flower is good, so that no one feels wrong, and they make money and spend their own money, and they feel comfortable.

Having said that, I still don't agree that we should spend our own money, which is different from being single. When you get married, you should have a family. Only when husband and wife work together can they have a happy marriage.

Personally, I think that there are too many benefits of wife's financial management compared with separate flowers.

1, which has the motivation to make money.

If the wife is in charge of money, then men will have the motivation to make money. If a husband loves his wife enough, he will try his best to make money and earn more money to please his wife.

Of course, this wife should also be considerate and understand her husband's hard work, so that her married life will get better and better. My eldest cousin, before she got married, had moonlight every month and had no savings.

Although his salary is high, his peers either buy a house or a car. He only has a scooter, so his frustration is particularly strong.

It was not until he got married and took the initiative to let his wife take care of the money that he slowly saved money, because he was a black sheep and didn't have much risk awareness in case of emergency.

My wife is really good at managing money. She has her own salary, and all my eldest cousin's income is used for investment. My wife's income is spent on daily expenses, and her life is orderly.

However, my wife is a reasonable person. When my cousin needs money, she will give it generously, neither less nor less. Under her management, they bought a house in less than three years. After this incident, the big cousin earned more money just to live a better life.

From this point of view, it is good for a wife to manage money, which can make a man who loves you earn more money. With the joint efforts of husband and wife, life will naturally get better and better.

2, conducive to the relationship between husband and wife

In some families, the financial power is not in the wife's place, but in the mother-in-law's, which is a bit incredible. But it also saves the troubles of young people. Some people just don't care about money, and they think they are obscene and annoying. They might as well leave it to their elders and have a good reputation.

But I want to say that this is very bad for the relationship between husband and wife. Imagine that a wife has to ask her mother-in-law for money if she wants to go back to her mother's house. Awkward. It is obviously her own money, and she has to report it if she wants to spend it. I'm so wronged that I'm not happy at all. No wonder some couples get divorced.

Besides, financial management for the elderly is easy to hurt the goodwill of family members. They will be more or less biased towards their sons rather than their daughters-in-law. After all, in their eyes, the son is their own and the daughter-in-law is a foreigner, so they can't be completely intimate.

In addition, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never been solved since ancient times. If you don't let your wife manage the money, she will feel that she has no status at all. If she is so depressed for a long time, it is strange that the relationship between husband and wife can be so good that there is no bad blood.

If the wife manages the money, it can avoid the problem of disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between husband and wife can also heat up, which is equivalent to an extra layer of protection for feelings, which is a good thing.

Step 3 avoid extramarital affairs

Many couples spend their own money, which is fair. Anyway, it seems natural to earn your own money, but it ignores an important emotional hidden danger. It is said that men become bad when they have money. Once their wives ignore the money and let their men spend it casually, it is easy to attract extramarital affairs.

My neighbors, when they go to their house for the first time, always show off in front of me, saying that they are open-minded and don't want other couples. Wives manage money, and they spend their own money.

I just smiled and said something innocuous, but I was afraid to point out the harm they had done and let me mind my own business. Looking at the woman's heartless smile, I am really afraid of the harm that extramarital affairs will bring to her.

I secretly reminded her that she didn't believe me at all, saying that I was alarmist and filtered it out. Since she is convinced of her husband's love, I don't want to be boring.

However, less than half a year later, she came to me in tears and said that her husband had an affair. I should have listened to me and not let her husband go. Now it seems that she regrets it.

From this perspective, it is possible for couples to spend their own money, and if the wife is in charge of the money, the danger in this respect can be avoided.

4. Improve the quality of life

The ultimate significance of wife's financial management is to improve the quality of life. Unlike some men, life is a mess, even if they earn a lot, they can spend money without restraint, and with secular contacts, there is little left in the end.

The advantage of a woman in charge of money is that she can plan your affairs and arrange your schedule so as not to be so flustered. In family life, many trivial things need money to take care of.

Men don't have the idea and are too lazy to do it, but women are different. They are willing to do anything for the better operation of this family. For example, the same is to eat and solve gastrointestinal problems, while women tend to cook by themselves, which is affordable, clean and safe to eat.

On the other hand, men would rather spend money on comfortable things and eat out than cook in the kitchen. It's ok once or twice, but they eat too much, which not only wastes money, but also damages their health.

If the wife is in charge of money, everything will be different. She will take good care of it, prepare meals and wait for her husband to come home. The family will eat happily around the table and life will be smooth.

In fact, the wife's management of money is also the experience of a n experienced person. Her benefits are much better than spending her own money. If you are not in this mode at the moment, you might as well adjust it. Maybe some troubles in your life will be broken.

Because this practice reflects your respect and love for your wife, how many women can not be full of joy after accepting this treatment, and the temperature of husband and wife's feelings will inevitably rise several degrees.

If you are currently facing marital problems, you might as well try this experienced person's reminder and let your wife take care of the money. Maybe you will have a bright future.