How happy is it to get what you want through your own efforts?

You will feel more secure, you don't have to please anyone, you will strive for what you want, and you will become more confident. As the saying goes, do it yourself and have plenty of food and clothing. If you want something, you should do it yourself instead of relying on others to ask for it. Once you reach this self-sufficient ability, you don't have to beg others. On the contrary, I feel very fulfilled, and I feel that I can do anything, and my heart will become happy and peaceful.

I never accept charity from others. If I want to buy something or do something, I will have my own control and go all out to realize my dream. This life is more free and easy.

First, there will be a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction inside. If you always base your happiness on others, even if you have to rely on others to fulfill your dreams, your happiness will be greatly weakened. You know, in this world, no one can always spoil themselves. Only by learning to be independent and strive for everything by yourself can you become omnipotent.

Second, you will become more and more confident. When you realize your life values and dreams with your own hands, your heart will become more and more confident and powerful, and your comprehensive quality will be improved. Some people always ask others mercilessly in life, and once they can't get it, they will complain and hate, but people who are self-reliant and self-reliant will never do so. No matter what they want, they will make every effort instead of trying to blackmail others.

Third, from now on, self-sufficient people will live with more dignity, regardless of other people's faces. They have extraordinary ability to realize their dreams, and their personal values will be improved. Even in the face of setbacks in life, such people will not blame others, but rely on their own self-confidence and ability to overcome difficulties, and will not think of finding someone to shelter from the wind and rain.

So girls must be independent and fight for what they want. When you have money and dreams, you will feel more secure.