Self-righteous people think they deserve everything. Should we remind them?

Thank you for inviting me. A self-righteous person is a selfish person who ignores others. Such people say that they lack "education", love and humanity! This kind of person has something to do with his growing environment and the upbringing of his parents. Either it is caused by a single parent or a single-parent family. Sometimes you can remind him, but more often he doesn't listen to anyone's advice at all. Therefore, the way to educate children is very important. It is our young couple's top priority to compensate their children and cultivate talents who are useful to the family and the country. We must know it, we can't suddenly know it!

Self-righteous people think they deserve everything. Should we remind them? Parents' property

Most children, especially sons, regard their parents' property as their own. Children with this idea really want to remind us that property ownership refers to the right to possess, use and dispose of. Any legal property of parents can only be owned by parents. Some things really have nothing to do with children, such as real estate, cars, savings and so on. Based on the relationship between children and parents, parents should help their children buy a house and a car. This behavior of parents, whether conditional or unconditional, should be a voluntary gift. Don't mistake this for it.

division of property

When children grow up, it is a headache for every parent to divide their families and analyze their property. At present, some families in society have wealth and assets exceeding 100 million. Faced with their parents' self-righteousness, some parents are kind-hearted, love charity and donate money and materials. To this end, some children are dissatisfied, and some think that their parents are unfair and bear a grudge. Parents' disposal of property is a manifestation of realizing ownership. No matter how it is distributed, it is the parents' legitimate exercise of the right to dispose, which deserves their special support and understanding.

This is what I'm going through now. My brother's child is 2 1 year old, and this epidemic is a headache for my whole family during the Spring Festival. There are too many unhappy links. I haven't heard him call me aunt for a month. I've always wanted to get close to my little brother, but I've never succeeded. People ignore me. Eating in bed is almost worse than pulling in bed. My brother said he was careless, and he said, then don't look. . . Wow, I am so angry.

Because my child is less than four years old, he is always naughty, but he never dares to go near him. He only likes to scream occasionally, and when he is happy, he talks loudly and laughs! So my brother's children yelled at my son three times in a row. For the first time, my son was a little noisy, which affected him to play games and slammed the door. The second time I asked my child if you were ill, of course, my son wouldn't understand what his brother said. Yell at my son for the third time, will you stop yelling! I can't stand it this time. I said the child was too young to be sensible, but he was noisy because your father made him take off his pants!

So I got depressed and went to the streets quietly. I have many concerns. I think I shouldn't talk about education in front of his parents. Talking more and talking less is not good for me.

Come back after ten minutes, my brother and son have finished fighting, and my son has run away from home. This is how my brother communicates with him. It is normal for children to be ignorant and noisy. Don't be such an attitude. Have you forgotten how good your aunt is to you? When I was a child, I treated my nephew like my own son. ) His son said, I just hate him! Blame my brother for taking a wrong stand. I should teach my son a lesson with him! Brother is very sad and trembling with anger! Of course, this is not the main content but a fuse. The point is that when my brother was ill (lung ai), the child never went to the hospital to visit him. My brother said angrily that he would never talk to each other again, and he agreed happily. Good! When he left, he said, no one should look for me, pointing to my brother and telling him to think about it and call him when he is ready. I was in a hurry and wanted my brother to communicate with him well, but my brother said it was useless.

I am thinking that this is undoubtedly an example of educational failure. The shared experience is that every baby who comes into this world is the same, a blank sheet of paper. How parents set an example and what colors and patterns they want to draw on white paper have the most direct relationship with their parents. How can parents of teenagers freely listen to their children's opinions? This is all wet! Although children have their own ideas, you must guide them! The general direction, if any, must be grasped by him! Besides, communication is too important! Getting along with people means talking and doing! If communication is not good and the meaning of the other party is distorted, relatives will become enemies! Some horse-haired men are 30 years old and can't do anything, which shows that they care too much, and my brother let them go too early!

Speak a little more, but stand in my heart and don't spit. Young people regard children's education as a top priority and never ignore it, because our life is children! They are our hope!

Self-righteous, that's for sure. You are a human being, afraid that you are not a good person and think you are haunters. If you think that you are a human being and can dominate everything, then you are wrong, beyond the origin of J, beyond human instinct, and will be restricted and balanced by external things. If you think that you are only one person and everything on the earth will have life, then don't kill each other. Killing each other, winning and losing, but actually destroying the atmospheric elements, making them lose their natural balance and natural nutritional balance, so that you will lack some nutrients, or even lack nutrition, resulting in diseases. Only by being conscientious and cherishing all life can we ensure human beings. Always remember that everything in benzene is as alive as I am, so I love myself, don't hurt each other, and let nature take its course.

Such children have missed the early education of human morality, and it is difficult to correct them without special changes. They have developed a lazy attitude and are not enterprising. When they disagree, they just want to find a job and fight, not to mention psychological counseling. It's useless Parents can't manage, society can't manage, and teachers can't manage. There is a 95% chance that they will grow into scum that will harm society in the future.

Thanks for inviting me. Let's talk about what a self-righteous person is. Such people always feel that they are right and can't tolerate other people's opinions and suggestions. This kind of person, who stands still, often won't make much progress, and is the enemy of his self-cultivation and temper his character. How do we view the traditional culture of China?

First, Laozi's Tao Te Ching talks about four things: ignorance, ignorance of self-cognition, lack of self-expression, futility of self-cutting and lack of self-appreciation. The common fault of human beings is that they like to express themselves, like to brag about themselves, think they are self-righteous, think they are great, think they are talented people, often complain, complain, live long and look at others unhappily. Don't want to do small things, can't do big things, and lack self-knowledge. The correct attitude should be like that of Di Renjie. Every time you encounter a case, you should ask Fiona Fang what you think. Ask others' opinions more, so as to do things better. When Mao Zedong decided on the Huaihai Campaign, he solicited the opinions of Su Yu and others, and repeatedly analyzed the situation of the enemy and the enemy before he decisively ordered and won the war.

Secondly, Confucius also put forward the cultivation method of four noes, meaning nothing, need nothing, reason nothing and I nothing. It also points out that people should not speculate out of thin air, be arbitrary and absolute, be opinionated and self-righteous. It emphasizes not being self-centered, not being too subjective, and thinking calmly and ideally. During the Eastern Jin Dynasty, Fu Jian, a former Qin Dynasty, was a typical example of being opinionated and even subjugated. Wang Meng, his brain trust, left him a last word when he died, saying that the Eastern Jin Dynasty would make peace, so you should ignore him, and Xianbei and Xiqiang are our enemies. This is the big worry. But a few years later, Fu Jian ignored this sentence. He called a military meeting to attack the Eastern Jin Dynasty. Many of his ministers, his brother and his wife opposed it, but he said he was very proud. Everyone in our army will throw a whip to block the river. In fact, this whip broke the flow, leaving only a big joke of throwing a whip to break the flow. If you are complacent, it seems that you will suffer sooner or later.

Conclusion: Self-righteous, consider everything, treat everything as your own, of course, dissuade him, and even wean him properly when necessary, so that he can know that not all the efforts in the world are worth it. People should always be grateful and consider the feelings of others.

This question should be reminded, but I won't listen. If I could listen, I wouldn't be called a self-righteous person. This kind of person is selfish, stubborn and a little overbearing. He always thinks he is right, as if everyone else owes him and should listen to him. He is a bit headstrong and reckless, or arrogant.

There are many reasons for this habit: First, I was influenced by my family environment since I was a child, lacking care, and my heart was empty. I always thought I was isolated. Second, family education, parents failed to take a good start and failed to correctly guide the understanding of objective things. Third, it is to spoil a habit.

Self-righteous personality is really bad. It is easy to offend people and isolate yourself from childhood. Small contradictions tend to intensify into major events, personal discord and so on. To put it more bluntly, a self-righteous person, an enterprise manager or unit supervisor will sometimes cause unnecessary troubles and losses to enterprises and units, and the harm may be even greater. Self-righteous people always run counter to the laws of nature, do whatever they want, don't listen to advice, right or wrong, and never adopt public opinions. It's time to remind, advise and come on! That's all. Goodbye!

Self-righteous people generally don't reflect, but sooner or later they will be alienated and lonely all their lives. Because nobody wants to be rejected for a long time.

For a self-righteous person, it is ok to remind him out of kindness, but it is light to meet a supercilious look, which may only be counterproductive, because this person is self-righteous

Self-righteous people, without being concerned, may reflect, and may also think it is someone else's fault.

To put it mildly, this question is self-righteous, and to put it bluntly, it is a fake king!

Such people have no political achievements and only talk empty words!

Overestimate yourself, cover your ears and stand still!

In fact, there are many such people in our lives, and there is no need to remind or discover such people.

Because you remind such a person that he thinks you can't handle it!

If you find him, he will become angry from embarrassment and argue with you!

We just meet such people and laugh at them.

Some people brag to the sky! I have my own ideas!

This is the true self!