You can be a happy woman.

1, there are people living around you, and it won't be smooth sailing. In fact, women's strength is forced out, never what they want. If someone can rely on, who wants to be that stubborn and lonely weed? Sometimes very tired, endless work, endless falsehood, endless tomorrow, if someone can rely on, it seems that everything becomes less tired. The so-called dependence means having a hug when you are wronged, a backer when you are vulnerable, and a harbor when you are lonely and helpless. There are women to rely on, people to take care of when they are sick, people who feel distressed when they are injured, people who know when they are confused, people who are willing to share, and people who have a shoulder when they are tired. Women always put down their disguise when someone can rely on them and become the softest and truest self. The woman who someone relies on is the most beautiful, gentle and happy. The money in the pocket is enough to spend a woman's life. With money in your pocket, you have a sense of choice and security. A woman's capital is not based on beauty, which will grow old with the passage of time. A woman's capital is to have her own career and earn money in her pocket. A woman with money in her pocket can make herself worry-free. You can't lose yourself even if you lose to choice and marriage. Women's economic ability is the guarantee to resist all major losses in life and the premise to improve the quality of life. A woman can have no beautiful appearance, no proud figure and no perfect love, but she must have money in her pocket. A woman must have money in her pocket. Economic independence determines the happiness of your life and the smile on your face. 3, a good attitude towards life Life is actually like a mirror. If you smile, it will give you happiness. If you are angry, it will give you sharp feedback. A woman with a positive attitude towards life can get happiness in life. A woman with a good attitude will never have a bad life. Your mentality affects your appearance all the time. A good attitude is a tonic for women, which can keep women young and elegant all the time. Every woman longs for happiness. Happiness is a feeling. It's easier said than done. A woman's happiness can be in her own hands. As long as you have enough courage, persistence and courage, you can live into your ideal happiness. I wish you to be a happy woman for the rest of your life, and live calmly and calmly in the hurried time. You can be a happy woman. 2. Education. In today's increasingly fierce competition, we must admit that "knowledge is wealth", but how can it not make people feel sad to see college students neglect their studies to fall in love in order to make money? Imagine a woman must hold her own destiny in the hands of others? Once you gamble all your money on others, you become the most worthless woman. Therefore, I am very responsible to warn the girls who are still continuing their studies: at what time, what should be done is king. Second, learn to dress yourself up. There are no unattractive women in the world, only women who can't dress themselves up. Dressing appropriately is the most important link for women to win respect, because people are used to wearing colored glasses to look at people. While enriching your spiritual beauty, you must not ignore the external beauty and find a decent job. Housewives and professional women are treated completely differently at home. The latter can find relative equality in the family and get due respect in social roles through their own efforts. Woman, don't let your lover have the final say, it will be the biggest failure of a woman's life. 4. Marry someone who loves you. The sweetness of love is based on love. If you don't have the luck to find a feeling that you love each other, then marry someone who loves you, and don't be an emotional person. That will make you look passive when managing your emotions. You will be cautious, depressed and tired. Why bother? How many times can our fragile hearts bear the vigorous five-being husband and wife? The biggest weakness of women is to make a mountain out of a molehill. Why can't they divide it into several parts? A good man is cultivated by a good woman, and how high the marriage stability index is generally depends on the IQ of the woman's husband. 6. Keep an optimistic attitude. We can't please everyone. Being the truest self is the greatest happiness. We are often confused by rumors, but we must not let rumors knock us down. It is the best policy to keep an optimistic attitude and face the "little people" around you indifferently. A friend once commented on a person who was reviled by others: this can reflect the meaning and value of your existence. Imagine that a life that is not concerned and discussed by others will make us feel inferior, so we should thank those little people because they can make us stronger. 7. Educate our children well. As a parent, you should do your duty. Being an excellent mother is really tiring. Don't think that the rest of your life is for children, because the happiness of being a mother is the greatest happiness of children. Just try your best to be an innocent person, and when it's time to let go, you must let the children fly freely. Children nowadays should stay away from the greenhouse. 8. Handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. We should have the sentiment of "treating mother-in-law as our own mother", look at some problems from the standpoint of the elderly, and don't expect too much from the elderly, so that they can enjoy their relaxed and lustless old age. If a woman can't cook, it will be a woman's sorrow. Women should not only be able to cook, but also cook well. Of course, today's working families should share more housework if their work is relatively idle. Even if a woman is tired of work, she should not put the cooking on men all her life. It seems difficult to maintain the integrity of marriage in this era. In the face of all kinds of temptations, once you can't control your emotions, you will fall into the embarrassing situation of extramarital love. This is usually a trap, it will sink deeper and deeper, and finally you will be scarred and have nothing. In this case, it is particularly important to learn to be loyal to your marriage.