I feel a little embarrassed. My roommate in my dormitory has a birthday today, and I want to wish her well, but I didn't say anything.

Be honest and trustworthy, and be lenient with others. No leaf in the world is the same, and people are all kinds. We should treat roommates with different family conditions and personalities equally, treat others with your tolerance and openness, don't haggle over every ounce, take into account other people's feelings while safeguarding our own interests in important matters, don't deceive others' feelings, and make promises to friends.

Try to integrate into the group. A dormitory, just like a small group, usually needs to get in touch with roommates, find out their common hobbies and participate in them, so that you can be easily accepted by roommates.

Open-minded. Don't be too stingy. If a friend has a birthday or won a so-and-so award and passed the so-and-so exam, he can give some small gifts or invite people to dinner and spend a little money, which is mainly used for emotional communication to show sincerity and blessing.

Treat people you don't like, or in other words, people who don't have any hobbies with you, don't exclude them, because they are in the same dormitory. If you don't say a word because of a bad relationship, the atmosphere in the dormitory will become extremely embarrassing. Therefore, try to find the advantages of each other, even if there is not much multilingual communication, say hello when you meet, and usually say a few commonplaces.

If you have a problem with your roommate, don't get angry and don't talk to this person again. This is the stupidest thing to do. If there is a quarrel or even a war, you must calm down in two or three days and actively communicate with your roommate to solve the contradiction, otherwise it will be the greatest regret in life. You know, there are many friends, but few friends and few doors ~