Where is the 20 16 broadcast by CCTV (the story of finding relatives) and Jiangxi Satellite TV (the truth after recognizing relatives) today? How's it going?

I just watched these two programs, and I was very unhappy after watching them.

1, Jiao Ning's adoptive parents: Even if Jiao Ning was not abducted as they said, she was found in their car. As a normal adult, even the most basic things are not sent to the police station, which can explain the essence of the problem and reflect their selfish thoughts.

2. People traveling in Beijing with Jiao Ning's adoptive parents: These people are basically the same as Jiao Ning's adoptive parents. From a legal point of view, they did not actively persuade their adoptive parents to take the initiative to report to the police station. From the perspective of human morality, regardless of the impatience and pain of the biological parents who lost their children, the reporter asked that even the 3-year-old child knew that he had found 1 cent and gave it to the police uncle. The old lady was vague and boasted that all the people were vying to raise Jiao Jiaoning, which actually reflected.

3. Jiao Ning's parents: From the bottom of my heart, I am very sympathetic. It's really pitiful that the child has been lost for so many years and running around looking for it. After all, I am my own flesh and blood and have children. From the standpoint of my parents, if anyone loses a child, that kind of mood is really unbearable for ordinary people!

But here I have to talk about Jiao Ning's father, who is too negligent. The child is so young and in a big city like Beijing, not to mention losing her daughter on the bus. Why don't you lose yourself when you are such an adult? It's all his own fault, giving others the opportunity to lose their daughter for 29 years, so now Jiao Ning's biological father has the greatest responsibility.

4. Jiao Ning's in-laws: After finding her daughter, Jiao Ning's biological parents want to meet the person who took her and raised her daughter for so many years, which is understandable. However, Jiao Ning's father-in-law and husband are so unorthodox that it is unacceptable for anyone to let Jiao Ning's biological parents admit to abandoning her!

Jiao Ning's father-in-law had the cheek to face the reporter's camera and said that he had sent two cars to play this and that, and he also delivered positive energy. Listen to the audience nausea!

5. Jiao Ning's husband: As a husband, I believe everyone can see his words and deeds, domestic violence, hitting women, forcing people to accept untrue feelings, and so on. I believe that the audience can only "hehe" twice! As the husband's own wife, instead of loving, caring and understanding his wife, he repeatedly used force to force her to admit that she was an abandoned child. Instead of understanding her heart and giving her a sense of belonging and security, she made things worse again and again, eventually leading to divorce. I don't think this is surprising, let alone Jiao Ning. Putting it in any woman's heart will be wronged, lonely, helpless and without a sense of belonging.

Jiao Ning's biological parents said they wanted to meet their adoptive parents, but they refused to say. They refused to recognize Jiao Ning's biological parents and finally refused to let Jiao Ning's biological parents live at home. From this incident, we can see their inner inferiority and lack of a man's most basic love and rationality.

6. Jiao Ning himself: Jiao Ning's fate is sad, and the negligence of his biological father has led to the change of fate in these years. He was sent to his adoptive parents' home to go to the countryside since he was a child. Although his adoptive parents kept saying that Jiao Ning was much better, personally, he should not. Why not send your son to the countryside? It's really good. Why did you keep it from Jiao Ning for so many years? It's really good. Why not take the initiative to help find your biological parents? If it is really good, does Jiao Ning have no feelings for this adoptive parent who has been raised for more than 20 years? I believe these problems are the clearest! The audience is also the clearest!

However, personally, I think Jiao Ning should not do several things. As an adult, dealing with things from TV reports does have shortcomings. Is the final outcome of the middleman. Although it was not directly caused by her, she failed to handle all aspects of the relationship and played a mediating role. But this kind of result can only be very unfortunate that it has not been well educated and cared for by parents in the true sense. And this selfish marriage arranged by adoptive parents, it is even more regrettable that she did not meet a good husband to help her reconcile her relationship and give her understanding, tolerance and care. Instead of actively helping her and enlightening her, she added fuel to the fire, which led to such an ending.

Finally, I want to say that this ending is what our current audience does not want to see. Jiao Ning's biological father failed to fulfill the responsibility of guardian, which led to Jiao Ning's disappearance, which is fundamental.

Jiao Ning's adoptive parents didn't help him find his biological parents, but they didn't really give Jiao Ning's father a sense of maternal love and security. They took the initiative to arrange his unfortunate marriage and found such a violent man. The selfishness of Jiao Ning's adoptive parents did not really think about Jiao Ning's happiness at all, looking for her husband's family close to home, hoping that it would be convenient and selfish for him to be hospitalized to take care of his old age, which laid the foundation for Jiao Ning's tragic ending.

Jiao Ning's parents-in-law used to be the local village party secretary, who was arrogant and didn't tell the truth. In order to take care of the so-called face, they forced Jiao Ning to admit that abandoning his beloved daughter was the right-hand man who led to Jiao Ning's tragic ending.

Jiao Ning's husband, as a part-time husband, is incapable and unworthy of being a man. He can't reconcile several parties in the middle. In fact, if he had a little thought and a little rational assistance, he would never have returned to this end. Therefore, it is wise for Jiao Ning to finally divorce! With such a love rat, I can't live in the future, some of them are the most affected, and some are beaten!

I hope Jiao Ning will live a good life in the future, find a good-tempered man to marry and live, make up for the affection he found, and be filial to his adoptive parents, no matter whether they are abducted or taken away, no matter how much influence they have on your future life, no matter whether they are really good to you or out of selfishness, after all, they have raised you for more than 20 years, so be grateful to them for the past 20 years!

What's the folk custom like in Jiaoning, that place in Henan? I believe the audience's glasses are discerning, so I won't say much! There is also the imperfection of China's legal system and the rampant social traffickers. I hope that the country will crack down on traffickers vigorously, and at the same time, public security bus companies and other relevant departments can also respond to families who have lost their children at the first time! Don't let the tragedy repeat itself! ! !