I don't care about people who have no chance.

However, the Buddha will not go beyond those who have no chance.

Of course, the reason is not that Buddha is merciless and wants to give up some people. Buddhism has a story about this sentence, which goes like this:

There is an old mother in Dongcheng, and the Buddha went to visit her. As a result, the old mother in Dongcheng turned her head and left when she saw the Buddha here. Then, the Buddha reappeared a dharma body, but the old mother in Dongcheng turned a corner and left. Thus, the Buddha showed four dharma bodies beside his mother in Dongcheng. However, the old mother in Dongcheng looked around at Sakyamuni. She looked down and cried without looking.

Therefore, the Buddha said: it is not unreasonable, but no chance!

In fact, life is like this! If a person can't empty himself and face the world with humility, then even if the Buddha comes, there is no way!

There are two reasons for this:

First of all, all the truths in the world are relatively correct, but there are never absolute truths. Therefore, when you give a person a reason seriously, as long as this person is not modest enough and has no empty cup mentality, he will only listen to you about the shortcomings and inaccuracies in these reasons. For example, if you say a truth, he may say, not necessarily! In my life experience, this is not the case. Even if you are right, some examples are not good enough, he will say, I don't think so. Then, publish a big push for your own views and reasons. At this point, you will unconsciously fall into an argument with him. In the debate, he brushed the sense of existence again, but he still didn't listen to what you said and didn't inspire him.

Secondly, any truth actually has some explanatory power!

All our truths are a way to explain the world, a system of interpretation. Therefore, as long as anyone grasps and firmly believes in a truth and an interpretation system, he will certainly find a pile of evidence to prove his interpretation system and believe it forever.

This truth is like saying that with a hammer in hand, the whole world will see nails!

For example, some people think that there must be bad people in the world, because there are bad things!

So, anything, he can find the bad guys! For example, the COVID-19 epidemic, since it is a bad thing, there must be bad people! So he will try his best to prove that the epidemic is because China people love to eat wild animals and China people are bad people. He will also try his best to prove that the epidemic was caused by a virus in an American laboratory. Americans are bad people, and the worst is Trump!

You said, this truth must be wrong? Maybe not. It's possible to find out, and it turns out that it was the American army. But before there is no evidence, we can only doubt through clues, and we should not draw such a conclusion.

For example, if someone doesn't study well, since it is a bad thing, there must be bad people. Look around, he will blame the teacher for his poor teaching!

Of course, he will find a lot of reasons! For example, he has a bad attitude and speaks rudely! Not funny! No one is perfect, and some faults and problems will always be found.

However, the same teacher, why can your classmates learn well?

Therefore, as long as a person firmly believes in a certain point of view and truth, it is useless for you to spit again! He'll just stay the same!

Some people who are not modest often show a modest and polite appearance, showing a very modest appearance! For example, I will admit some of your words, which makes sense! However, some words are not quite right. In fact, his focus is behind, but he doesn't pay attention to the truth that makes sense in front, the shortcomings in other people's words, and the shortcomings of others, but he doesn't think about those things. Those truths are worth learning from!

Because only by listening to others' reasonable places can you be truly modest, and only by focusing on others' correct places can you be truly inspired, changed and improved, otherwise, you will always make slow progress!

Therefore, when you get along with others, you should pay more attention to the advantages of others. When communicating with others, we should better listen to what others say and pay more attention to the advantages of others. Only in this way can you make real progress, and only in this way can you really live in harmony with others!