Will a mother-in-law really treat her daughter-in-law as family?

Yes, I am an example.

When the mother-in-law says that she wants to treat her daughter-in-law like her own daughter, some people are sincere, and sincerely hope that they can get closer in the future, while others just say high-sounding words without practical actions. And I am very lucky, my mother-in-law is really good to me, even my status is higher than my husband, ha.

I can see from the following three points that my mother-in-law treats me really well:

1. Accompanying during pregnancy. My mother-in-law took care of my food, clothing, housing and transportation throughout pregnancy. She didn't let me do any housework since I was pregnant. She didn't even let me sweep the floor or brush a bowl. Insist on cooking me nutritious food every day (books specially bought by my mother-in-law), accompany me for a walk after dinner, and ask me about my current physical condition every day. In short, too many details make me feel very warm, and the fact proves that having a good mother-in-law will make you feel married to the right person.

2. Have a baby. When I gave birth to my first child, I was really scared. My mother-in-law accompanied me all the time, constantly comforting and encouraging me, and constantly imparting experience to me. I remember the night before labor, the contractions were frequent and regular, and then I went to the hospital. I realized that the internal examination before labor was so horrible and painful, and the feeling was unforgettable for life. As a result, the internal examination was finished, and I couldn't go to the delivery room to give birth, so I had to continue to rest in the waiting area. The nurse said that the internal examination would be done again after three hours. God, I was about to burst into tears when I heard this sentence. That night, my mother-in-law comforted me constantly, told me to relax, told me the benefits of natural childbirth, and accompanied me to walk the stairs for a long time, just to let me open my fingers quickly and talked to me about her experience, which made me feel less afraid.

With my mother-in-law's encouragement, I also got up the courage to have an internal examination. Everything went smoothly, and I was able to go to the delivery room. I still remember a small detail in particular: when I came out with my baby, my mother-in-law and husband first looked at me and asked me how I felt. Thank you for your hard work. In this sentence, I feel that my mother-in-law really regards me as a daughter.

3. Not partial to her son. It is inevitable that there will be quarrels between husband and wife, and the reasons for quarreling are all trivial matters. My mother-in-law is always partial to me. She said: She used to be a daughter-in-law, and she deeply knows that if she helps her son to criticize or accuse her daughter-in-law indiscriminately, there will be no hatred between the young couple. As a result, because of her mother-in-law's partiality, her daughter-in-law will feel like a stranger in this family, and there will be a lot of resentment and grievances in her heart. Because she understands that only when the daughter-in-law is well, then the family will be well.

"A good mother-in-law comes before a good daughter-in-law", which I think is really good. Mother-in-law really treats her daughter-in-law as a daughter. Daughter-in-law must also cherish and be content, and better honor her mother-in-law, mother-in-law and kindness. That is the happiest foundation of a family. ?

In fact, every mother-in-law is an ordinary woman, just different from the time when we grew up and the background is different. We must cherish the honor of being a family. My mother often tells me: after marriage, be filial, diligent and sweet. It is very important to be suitable for each other, and distance can also produce beauty. In the final analysis, it is communication and understanding.

Finally, I hope everyone can cherish those who are not related by blood but treat you well, and live in peace and love each other in the best distance.