Will bald men feel inferior? How to treat alopecia?

Let me give you an example first. Actor Xu zhēng began to lose his hair when he was in college. For those who are about to enter the entertainment circle, it is no exaggeration to say that it is a "disaster".

But for Xu Zheng now, isn't "baldness" one of the most striking signs of his becoming an artist?

He Jiong, a teacher at Mango Taiwan, once blew himself up on a talk show. She used to feel inferior for her figure, saying that she felt inferior when she was a child, and that she was "small and not good-looking", and she was mistaken for a primary school student by a junior high school teacher because of her small figure.

Two examples, one positive and one negative, tell us that alopecia and baldness have little to do with inferiority complex. Hair loss and baldness can also have no inferiority complex, and people who don't have hair loss and baldness can also have inferiority complex.

If I have magic to make a person who feels inferior for his baldness grow hair the next day, will he let go of his inferiority complex? The answer is: no, he will certainly find something that makes him feel inferior, such as his hair is not thick enough or too thick, his hair color is not ideal, or his hair color does not match his skin color. The reason is often incredible.

I once received a visitor with good facial features and good looks, but insisted on plastic surgery. Although it experienced a little inflammation after operation, it was successful on the whole, and the inflammation soon recovered after operation. But she has always insisted that "the operation was unsuccessful", "uglier than before" and "she was afraid that others would know that she had plastic surgery", so she felt even more inferior.

Psychology believes that inferiority is a person's evaluation that he is lower than the objective reality, which has nothing to do with his objective conditions. People who feel inferior can always find "unsatisfactory places" in themselves, and then feel inferior. Or looks, or family background, or personal characteristics, and so on.

Inferiority is a person's low evaluation of himself, which has nothing to do with objective conditions. Therefore, the way to change inferiority is not to increase or change an objective condition, but to psychologically correct Ta's self-evaluation.

Psychological consultation is the best shortcut to correct self-evaluation psychologically.