Talk to your parents.

Many people say? Children are debts owed by parents in their previous lives? Originally, it was a very close parent-child relationship, but it became tense because of various small things and could not be reconciled. Parents and children should reflect on themselves, and what they did wrong led to the intensification of contradictions.

Understand your feelings, because you trust your parents, so you tell them something, hoping to close the relationship and let them know more about themselves. What you did was right and worth learning. But you want to rely on it? Lose your temper? It is a big mistake to communicate problems in a new way, which will not only solve them, but also make the family atmosphere stiff. Take a deep breath and calm down. Let's look at this problem from the perspective of parents and understand why they want to tell others about you.

In fact, it is easy to understand that children are the pride of parents, and parents think that you have given them a long face. Moreover, at this age, when parents chat with friends in the neighborhood, the topics around them are mostly children. How is your son's job? What does your daughter's boyfriend do? ? Actually, it's just small talk. They didn't mean to reveal your so-called privacy. Besides, my parents have been there before. When they tell others about you, most of them say that your benefits, advantages and words are beautified and will never damage your reputation.

Knowing this, has your anger subsided? Then talk to your parents and tell them that you are a private person. I don't want them to tell others these things, which will make you feel very embarrassed and embarrassed after meeting acquaintances. Pay attention to your tone and attitude, and be gentle with a little coquetry, so that they can understand you more easily and give you respect. All in all, if there is a problem, we must communicate rationally. Losing your temper and quarreling will only get worse. Not only can't get the desired result, but it will hurt parents' hearts. Why bother?