How to arrange remarriage and find a wife economically?

If you remarry and find a wife, I'll give you an answer on how to arrange it economically.

When an old man remarries, his children will get involved in property disputes. In order to reassure the children and not suffer too much financially, I think this is still an economic arrangement.

Register your pre-marital property one by one (including the certificate of deposit) and then notarize it according to law. After a hundred years, these properties will be inherited by your children and have nothing to do with remarried wives.

After you register for marriage, the salary income belongs to both husband and wife. Except expenses, the rest can be saved for serious illness or minor disaster. If it is not enough, you can use the passbook in the pre-marital property as a supplement to treat the disease.

If one party dies, the other party can share half of his property and the remaining half with your children. If one party has parents, it should also participate in inheritance.

If the other party has a job and a pension, their pension problem will be solved very well. If the other party is a farmer, the state can give them a certain survivor's allowance, which is also very helpful for their pension.

Answer "If you remarry and find a wife, how to arrange it economically?" In fact, the first purpose of people looking for a wife should be to meet emotional needs, followed by life needs. If two people can't get along, two of a kind, the problems and contradictions after marriage are not only reflected in the economy, but also many details of life will lead to disputes. However, knowing about economic or other aspects of life before marriage will also provide basic guarantee for harmonious coexistence after marriage.

Nowadays, remarriage has become a popular trend, but due to economic disputes and other contradictions from all aspects of life, the probability of divorce has also greatly increased. Therefore, for both parties looking for a partner, an agreement that can reach an understanding of the details of married life will definitely help married life.

1, the elderly should first find a partner on the basis of emotional attraction. There must be no bad intentions and purposes such as deception, possession, dependence and acquisition. To find a partner in old age, you must find your soul mate, two of a kind's bosom lover. Only sincere feelings based on mutual respect and love can overcome or tolerate many discomforts in marriage. Beauty lies not only in the eyes of lovers, but also in understanding and tolerance. The behavior of choosing a spouse and finding a partner for other purposes can't be wrapped in paper, and it will be a fiasco in marriage.

There is an agreement before marriage, which is called "talk first and then argue". No matter how old people remarry, no matter how deep emotional friendship, before two people get married, there should be an agreement on what they can achieve after marriage. From the economic investment of both parties, the enjoyment and division of married property, to hobbies, living habits and so on. So all questions can be confirmed before marriage. Only what suits you is what you need, otherwise no matter how deep the emotion is, all the contradictions and problems can't be accommodated. If there is a prenuptial agreement, we can live a harmonious life of "talking first and arguing later" in our own circumstances.

3. The generosity and tolerance of both sides are the foundation of married life, which ensures that two people form life partners and get close to each other. So we need to be sincere to each other. Generosity and tolerance are the products of deep feelings. Although there is an agreement before marriage, many details need to be balanced by the generosity and tolerance of both parties. If two stingy people treat life too much, they hold their breath. How can a divided life make life smooth? How can we make life happy? If a narrow-minded person can't find a life partner, there won't be more friends and family around him.

Single people are eager to find the right partner, but have you ever thought about being willing to pay for it? If you are not ready, you'd better not make a hasty decision. Choosing a spouse, regardless of age, is a big project of life emotion, which can't be false or unreasonable. Otherwise, the hard-built marriage castle will collapse in marriage life.

Life is too short, it's dusk. Lonely old people have a caring partner and a happy home to enjoy their old age. As long as you share the same interests, trust each other and tolerate each other, it is enough to spend more money and less, and a comfortable life is the purpose. But happiness is the goal and economy is the guarantee, so money should be considered in this way.

1. Looking for an object at dusk, first of all, the two sides are equal in personality, and there is no one serving whom, being a nanny, being a subordinate and so on. This is irresponsible, unwilling to pay and selfish. Finding a wife is to help each other and help each other for a lifetime. Self-centered, greedy for enjoyment, married life is naturally unsustainable, and you can only die alone.

Second, to find a partner, you have to find someone with similar interests, age, status, status and economic conditions. If you have the same world outlook, identity and economic conditions, you will get mutual respect, deepen mutual affection, have the same hobbies and languages, reduce frictions and disputes between the two sides, and make the engagement relationship last for a long time.

Third, it's over for an elderly partner to talk about feelings. It's more about affection, and each needs what he wants. As long as he knows each other, he knows how to be cold and warm, takes care of each other, and men are attentive, women are affectionate and truly exchange feelings. Naturally, it is your will to pay more or less, so there is no question of who supports whom. The problem of money will be solved.

When talking about money, it is better to focus on the choice. Choice is greater than hard work, and comfort and happiness are the purpose. May the elderly partners in the world spend the rest of their lives and enjoy their old age. It is dusk to see the sun, although it is dazzling.

I have read everyone's opinions and have different opinions. Let me give you my opinion. I think there are two ways to find a wife. One is an unlicensed wife. Looking for such a wife, I suggest that the man save some money for the woman every month in case of discomfort. It will cost much less than looking for a nanny. Now it costs 4000 yuan a month to hire a nanny in our third-tier cities, and another is to get a license. Such a couple is legal, it is legal. Treat the children of both sides as their own children, and trust each other with a flat bowl of water. The man earns the money back to the woman, and the woman controls all the expenses at home. Of course, there is another problem here. Because it is a family reorganization, it is fair to pre-marital property and has nothing to do with marriage. Of course, if two people have a good relationship, voluntary dedication is a personal matter. The last sentence, that is, I agree that wives should care for each other, respect each other, tolerate each other and love each other. People's hearts are all meat. You gave her seven points, and she loves you very much. This is perfect. Please forgive me if there is anything wrong with what I said.

Seeing the sun, although he is very glorious, it is already dusk. If men and women can be together, men should have a big trip and women should have an atmosphere. Men should have a sense of responsibility at home, women should take money away, men should care about women, women should be single-minded about their families, men should hit her heart with their heart, and women should warm his feelings with their feelings. Heart for heart, to see the sun, to see all his glory. Bless each other with a pair of concerned eyes every day. Life is too short to hug you and you in the morning, you have already hugged the dusk. I wish people who are sixty years old happiness and peace.

In fact, many single women are excellent, financially independent, spiritually independent, and even outstanding in appearance, but they have to be lonely. Why? Because I haven't met a real man! Sometimes what women care about is not men's money, but their thoughts. Men who advocate AA intuitively discount their gender characteristics, while women despise them. Most women like men they admire and admire. If she likes you, she is willing to accompany you no matter how hard it is. A man's generosity is an important factor to attract women. Men will be careful from the beginning. Will women respect you? Once rejection occurs, tit-for-tat will follow. Smart men will give in to women first in interests, and winning women's respect is a stepping stone to success. If a woman really likes you, she will pay because she is a woman.

I think remarriage and finding a wife should be equally divided in economy and housework, but it should not be too harsh. For example, whoever has time will take the initiative to do housework, and whoever is in charge of shopping will spend money to buy things for two people at the same time, so that both of them will not feel lost psychologically and can shoulder family responsibilities at the same time.

Half of the remarried old couples are around us. They all come from nearby, and we all know each other. Both of them were widowed a few years ago, because we often played together and had a good relationship in recent years. After a few years of single life, the two felt congenial, so they asked their children for advice, and the children agreed to walk together and be partners with each other, which would also make the children feel more at ease.

Before two people get married formally, it is agreed that the big economy will remain independent of each other, and the small economy will not distinguish between you and me. Probably because we are familiar with each other, we don't have any doubts or concerns about each other.

According to the old lady, they all do housework together. Basically, whoever has time will do it, and they will not put all the housework burden on one person. When it comes to shopping, because the things used in daily life are very small, basically in terms of diet and clothing, most of them are paid by the elderly. The old lady sometimes wants to buy it with her own money. The old man will say, "My money is also your money, and men pay after women", and the old lady will accept it gladly. In the event of festivals and the like, she will also buy some better quality clothes or other items for the elderly.

I often hear old ladies sigh with emotion that it is very easy for them to explain everything in advance, and no one will have any psychological burden on anyone, and there is no mental pressure in life. She thinks this is a very suitable remarriage model, and our neighbors also think their conditions are very good.

If you remarry, put their wages together. Who will keep them? This is also a problem.

In fact, no matter what you do, it still has something to do with people. If you meet a man or woman who values money too much and doesn't trust each other, no matter how you arrange the financial aspects, it is easy to have problems. On the other hand, it doesn't matter how you arrange it, as long as both of you think it's ok.

I tell the story of two friends for reference only:

First, three months after the death of Uncle Gao's wife, he clamored for marriage. It turns out that the 65-year-old uncle Gao has a retirement salary and is a "hot commodity" in rural areas. Someone started to match him a long time ago.

The remarried wife is younger than him 10 years old. She is a rural woman. She had a daughter who was married far away, and her son agreed to see that the woman's family background was still simple.

On the wedding day, Uncle Gao announced that he would pay his wife 600 yuan's private money and living expenses every month after marriage. The house under his name will be transferred to his son, but it can't be given to him until he and his remarried wife die. Now the right to use it belongs to himself and his wife.

After this arrangement, my son and daughter-in-law can't say anything. The stepmother doesn't pay much for taking care of her father's 600 yuan, and she doesn't want to add any money. Just bend the rules.

Now Uncle Gao has been dead for 10 years, and her stepmother still lives in that old house, and her stepson gives her 200 yuan living expenses every month. The street applied for a minimum living allowance for her, and her wife's unit still had an inheritance to make up for her. It is also 1000 yuan. Everyone said that she met a kind family and was old.

Second, 75-year-old Uncle Lin's wife has been dead for two years. Because of their good relationship, he has been reluctant to remarry.

Later, I met my son's classmate's mother and often came to play. After getting to know each other, I had the idea of getting married.

After getting married, he gave his wife 800 yuan money every month, and all other expenses were paid by himself, and his wife did all the housework. Usually, the son is a family, the daughter and son-in-law come back, and the wife is busy. The family lived happily and peacefully for six years.

Uncle Lin once cheated at mahjong and fell to the ground as soon as he was happy. Everybody take him to the hospital at once.

The wife informed her stepson to come to the hospital, and she was busy packing her clothes and going to the hospital for care. As a result, when she arrived at the hospital, her stepson refused to let her see her and her family refused to let her go back. She completely regarded her as a man who robbed her father's property. A few days later, Uncle Lin passed away, and she never even met him. Stepsons said it had nothing to do with her. She only pays her salary when her wife is around.

How to arrange remarriage and find a wife economically?

Because it is remarriage, halfway couples will involve many economic problems, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife and children if not handled properly.

First, AA system.

According to the division of economic ability, one person can be divided into half, two people can set aside some money for living expenses, and the rest can be arranged relatively freely.

Second, pay wages.

Compared with the situation that the man does less housework and the woman pays more, she can pay appropriately, but she must pay less. This is an affirmation of the woman's work and a guarantee for her future life.

Three. Notarization arrangement

If the man has a monthly pension of 1000 yuan, he can take out 3,000 yuan as living expenses for two people, 2,000 yuan as pocket money, and the remaining 5,000 yuan is willing to give it to his children or keep it for himself. It's best to notarize this situation to avoid further misunderstanding.

I have a house, a job and a pension when I am old. A daughter is studying in Canada. Who can tell me how far I will let her go after AA property notarization?

Depends on how much the other person loves you. I remarried, my husband loves me very much, and I am in charge of our family. But I am also considerate of my husband's life. They also travel a lot. For the purity of our old age, I asked my husband to explain his real estate to the children, and our family's life was very easy. If the aa system is adopted, both parties will be very tired.