Husband and ex-wife are eating vegetables and chatting.

"The predecessor is always a topic that remarried families can't escape. According to him, he divorced because his ex-wife thought he didn't earn money, but his current financial situation is OK. From elementary school to college, he and his ex-wife have been discussing how to bring up the children, and they have handled the children's affairs without asking my advice. For the sake of children, I sometimes feel unhappy, but I can understand this scale.

The conflict between 20 17 intensified, and he and his predecessor (including his father and sister) sent their children to different universities without consulting me. This scale makes me feel out of place. I talked to him and hoped that he would consider our family and my feelings. In the future, I should be careful not to get so close to my predecessor's house except when my children get married. If we must be together, then take me away. This conversation made him extremely angry.

Afterwards, for the sake of future harmony, I insisted on writing the family agreement by hand, but he insisted on not writing it.

When his children went to college, they set up a family group: him, his children and his predecessor. Group name: a loving family. I have always liked this child, but he has been living in school since junior high school, and he is also very distressed by his mother, so he rarely contacts me and has been living with his mother. I used to be seldom called aunt, but now I want to be called aunt.

I have a child with my predecessor. I don't associate with my ex, but the child can go wherever he wants and call him dad. Four years younger than him, my current husband and I have no children.

But the day before yesterday, I came back from my hometown to look after my father. My colleague told me that on his son's birthday, he arranged for his parents and sister's family to have dinner with his predecessor's parents and sister's family. I was shocked because when I asked him, he always said that he only lived with children. I think he has gone too far. He thinks it's just a child's meal.

I said it's okay to have dinner together. The problem is that you don't invite me or even tell me. He said that I was on the line and narrow-minded. I am really tired. What should I do? "

My suggestion: this is really troublesome. A man divorced because he hated poverty, and then he had to face his ex-wife when he got rich, let alone have feelings. It is the sense of success of turning over the serf, and it also urges him to keep in touch with his ex-wife's family. Otherwise, how can he show off? What's more, there are children, and the idea of remarriage for children is also true. You and he are only a couple on the way. I suggest you plan ahead and prepare for the worst.

I think you got married too rashly. Your children and ex-husband, your husband's children and ex-wife, wouldn't it be nice for you two to have another child? This is the reason why a family is happy. And shouldn't this be considered and agreed before marriage?

You don't want children, he cares about his own children, so aren't you a free nanny? Obviously, he may be financially and physically attached to his ex-wife.

You talk to him. If he can't let go of his ex-wife, you'd better separate. After all, there are no children. If he can keep his distance and stay away from his ex-wife and even his family except the children, he can live a good life. As long as he is kind to you and physically and mentally in your home, he can not have children. Older women are not so good, mainly depending on his attitude and actions.