How important is it to know each other's family before marriage?

Knowing each other's family before marriage is related to your future happiness, so it is very important for two people who are going to get married.

1. Knowing each other's family before marriage can make married life more harmonious.

It is said that the most difficult thing in the world is between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Knowing each other's family, you can see what kind of mother-in-law you need to deal with in the future in a short time. After marriage, many people often have marital disharmony because of their mother-in-law.

Over time, it will increase the friction between husband and wife. When the situation is not serious, it will make your life very wronged. If it is in the eyes of the situation, it may become the fuse of divorce.

If you are male, the same is true.

2. You can know the financial situation of the other family in advance.

Don't think that the young couple will not live with their parents after they get married. Know each other's family in advance, at least it won't let you down.

For example, you want to marry a well-fed family. If you don't understand, you are just immersed in the family situation woven by the other party. In case his family situation is not what he imagined before marriage, you will feel dissatisfied yourself. Once this kind of emotion is amplified, it will also be the fuse of family conflicts in the future.

Some girls have younger brothers or older brothers at home. If the situation that parents prefer sons to daughters is not so serious, that's fine. But once it is serious, after marriage, the woman will endlessly use your money to supplement her family, even if you love her again, I'm afraid it's unbearable.

A friend of mine is like this. My wife has a younger brother at home, and she didn't fully understand her family environment before she got married. I feel that since they have formed a family, even if they want to add it later, there are not many. But to his surprise, he saved money for two or three years, and all of it was returned to his brother-in-law by his wife. In the end, the couple can no longer work together and can only choose divorce.

Getting along with you can tell whether the other person is pretending.

Nowadays, many people know people's faces but don't know their hearts. Maybe he can disguise himself well when you two are alone. However, if he comes from a poor family, you will suffer from marriage in the future.

A person's family background is very important to his own marriage.

Some people spent their childhood arguing and fighting with their parents, and a terrible devil has been buried in their hearts. They don't appear in ordinary life at all, but once they reach a certain critical point, they will explode immediately.

Once this happens, it is very passive for women.