Why do people who are honest and not good at words always feel like they are being bullied?

"It is a crime not to bully an honest person", so many people have this hobby. Because they know you, an honest fool, won't resist.

Force yourself to do things that you didn’t want to do before, exercise your courage, and make yourself a little bit more bad.

Excessive kindness is cowardice. It was you who taught them how to treat you!

How did you respond when they bullied you for the first time? (This is very important!!)

The first time someone bullies you, you must fight back bravely and fatally. Let him know how great you are. There will be no consequences for messing with me!

The bad guy was actually kind before, but found that he was always being bullied, so he had no choice but to become stronger.

If you are kind, save face and don’t fight or fight with them, they won’t be afraid of you. After all, people bully the weak and fear the strong.

It’s not because the people around you are bullies.

In this case, you have the opportunity to learn, and you can do what they do.

Don’t accommodate others, wrong yourself, and dare to refuse unreasonable requests!

Be kind to those who are good to you, and be vicious to those who are not good to you.

Kindness also has a measure!

You said that you are always bullied. I can only say that you are kind and unprincipled. When someone crosses your limit, you should stand up for yourself and be fierce - fight back like this. I will ask in the future. Do they still dare to take you lightly?

After all, it is your kindness that makes them trust you and ask you for help. If not, learn to say no. Refuse to make unreasonable demands, refuse to hurt yourself, refuse to be used, refuse to be deceived...

There is nothing to be afraid of offending others, as long as you don't hurt others. Being assertive means making your own decisions about your own affairs.

If someone hurts you, remember to resist. Learn to say no to unreasonable things.