Talking about suicide

Teachers, parents, will often tell children a word:

Life is only once, so cherish it.

But you see, in this world, there are still so many people who choose to end their lives. According to the data reported by the World Health Organization, about 654.38+0 million people worldwide die of suicide every year.

Many times, people may really be forced to an extreme situation and have to die to solve the problem. For them, this is a relief. Although it is not incomprehensible, I still choose to live if I can. There may be only one reason for your despair, but there are countless reasons for you to continue to live.

When chatting with friends, I often mention that I am most afraid of death, dogs and heights. After detailed analysis, I am afraid of dogs because they have been chased by dogs and have shadows, and I am afraid of being bitten by rabies. The end result is death. Fear of heights is not innate, but also because I am afraid of falling from a height, and the final result is death. So in the final analysis, all the things I am afraid of can actually be classified as: death.

I don't think it is difficult to talk about fear of death. Of course, if it is on the battlefield, it is another matter. There is nothing wrong with fear of death in peacetime. Is it not good to cherish life? Death means that a person will disappear from this world forever. Whether your spirit lasts forever or not, you must be unable to continue to perceive the world. Life is not long. Don't regret not living once.

Recently, I watched a movie about suicide, called Lover, also called the paradise of the wrist cutter. The film is relatively dull, not particularly brilliant, but the idea is ok and has a certain meaning. I was going to comment briefly, but I just thought of some other good movies about "suicide". Let's talk about it together

A small work of black humor.

The story begins with a depressed young man committing suicide. When he got up in the morning, he chose to cut his wrist and commit suicide. The film didn't explain the specific reason for his suicide, because it's not important. What matters is the other world he entered after committing suicide and what happened there. That's where all the suicides gather. This seems to be the same as our real world, except that there is a lot less anger. The hero met two other friends there. And started a pleasant "trip" together (well, actually I heard that my ex-girlfriend died, so I went to find someone ...). In this process, everyone began to slowly discover the blind spots in their previous lives …

Some subtleties in the film are quite interesting, such as the reunion of the hero's friends and family in this "suicide paradise". Everyone in the family committed suicide for various reasons, and finally they started a "new life" here. There were many contradictions and problems in this family before their death, but after they came here, they were able to disappear. The scene of them toasting together is ridiculous and weird.

Another example is the shadow manager in "suicide paradise". We didn't know their functions until someone committed suicide here for the second time. They just appeared in a hurry (in our hero's suspicion, someone really wanted to die again ...), and the managers will also be responsible for sending the wrong type of suicides back to this world, just like our heroine. ...

Some people live a very comfortable life in suicide paradise, go to bars for a drink and play some boring games like "Guess how he died", but some people, after coming here, slowly start to want to go back, and some people are as eager to go back as the heroine because of accidental "suicide".

In fact, we will soon find that normal people will never like this place. There are no stars in the world of suicide, and everything is routine. Everyone has no smile and "exists" aimlessly. Is this death really a relief? It is better to be alive ... Under the influence of the woman, the man also misses the happy time in the past, misses his family and misses the feeling of "love" in this world. When he finally woke up in the hospital and saw the person he loved not far away, he finally understood that "it's good to be alive".

Although the film shows us a strange world after suicide, we really don't know where we will go after death. After discovering the blind spot of life, the characters in the film are lucky to get a chance to choose to live again. However, we don't, we can't go to another world to find our lost lover, and we won't meet any "like-minded friends" again. Even if we have regrets, we can only be ashes lying in the grave. ...

So you see, it's better to stay safe than to go and want to come back.

This is an animated film, adapted from the novel of the same name by Eto Mori Naoki, an award-winning female writer, and a touching story full of love.

The story tells the story of a soul who just died. He was told that he was sinful, but he was given a chance to be resurrected because of the lottery of "angels". He borrowed the body of a boy aged 14 and started a wonderful life. With the help of the guardian angel, he felt the ups and downs of life, from reluctance at the beginning to the beauty of living. Gradually, he developed feelings with his family and classmates and found his own goal in life.

Interestingly, this soul parasitic in Kobayashi is actually Kobayashi himself. Suicide is a felony. Indeed, in some countries, suicide is illegal, after all, it is also a kind of "murder", but the crime in the film itself should be criticizing people for not cherishing life.

We are alive, not to mention how, there are more things to consider. There is a saying.

If we can really stare at the world in another place after death, then do we really want to see friends and family around us feel sad about it? If death is the way a person chooses to get rid of it, it is also the way he chooses to put others in a desperate situation. Even if he doesn't want to, it will still cause such consequences.

Kobayashi really didn't realize the goodness of this world before his death. After witnessing the girl he liked looking for Xiang to make an unfair deal with the middle-aged uncle, and his mother and teacher walked out of the tryst hotel together, he finally couldn't bear it and chose to take sleeping pills to commit suicide.

When he woke up, although he constantly cynically exposed the camouflage of people around him, he also learned to reconcile with life through gradual liberation. He met bosom friends, had his own ideals, understood his strict brother and forgave his irresponsible mother. These people were eventually influenced by him in turn and their lives became better.

In this film, if you think the world is not beautiful enough, you can come back from the dead. In reality, if we feel that the world is not beautiful enough, let the past die and come back to life.

In the process of growing up, everyone will encounter setbacks, unpleasant and even painful things, similar to living in the eyes of others, similar to family members' incomprehension, similar to having no friends and not being accepted ... but we know that these things can be changed, and the key lies in whether we are willing to make changes ourselves.

Do you know how wonderful it is for those terminally ill people to have tomorrow, even if they lose everything, as long as they can continue to live?

Why kill yourself when you have the right to live?

I really like a passage from the film reviews I have seen:

Live.

This is still an animation, a "weird" style animation, a song and dance type animation.

A lifeless French town, a well-known old shop, is particularly prosperous. This ancestral old shop is famous for selling suicide products. Suicide has become a common occurrence in this desolate town.

Mishima, the owner of this shop, is lifeless, and the proprietress is getting sadder every day. They have long lost their enthusiasm for life and are unhappy all day long. Selling suicide articles for a long time has brought them to the brink of collapse.

However, Allen, the son of the store manager, is a little boy who loves life very much. His love is a serious threat to the operation of the old shop. His father tried his best to make Allen depressed, but he was unconsciously influenced by his son, and the world was full of love and perfection.

Suicide convenience stores are full of black humor. We don't know why this city has become such a dog, and what makes everyone so unable to live. We only saw that they bought suicide articles, poisons, highly toxic drugs, hanging ropes, etc. from convenience stores, and then died without hesitation, and there was no time to give praise. If they are not dead, the store can still get a full refund. ..

What a desperate society it is when "death" becomes a commodity or a bestseller. ...

When the happy little boy Allen appeared, our frowning brows slowly spread out. Obviously, our hearts are still happy to enjoy the sunny side of life.

When happiness is far away from everyone, "life and death" is no longer a problem, because everyone will choose the latter by coincidence. But death is easy, and happiness is easy. Don't give up trying to stay happy until the need of death comes. You can plant a flower and feel happy when it blooms, climb a mountain, feel happy when you see the panoramic view of the horizon, help a person and feel happy when he smiles at you. ...

Stop saying, "There are many happy people in the world, why can't you count me in?" You have to believe, "there are so many happy people, and few people want to die."

September 10, 2003 was designated as the first "World Suicide Prevention Day" by the World Health Organization to arouse public concern about suicide. You can pull when you see something hard, and commit suicide if you can't think hard. You only have one life.

I respect everyone who wants to commit suicide. It wouldn't have happened if it hadn't happened for a reason. Including myself, have had suicidal thoughts. Most people have had this idea. Fortunately, not most people choose to practice.

I deeply remember that I once had an idea, because I felt really tired from studying. There are so many exams that I am often not recognized. Now my college entrance examination has long passed, and I am studying in college with peace of mind. I think it's a little ridiculous in retrospect. Did I desperately want to learn? I appreciate being scared to death. I won't really do anything.

After reading Yu Hua's Living, I feel that it is really difficult to live in troubled times. The rare warmth in life is torn to pieces by death again and again, but the story in the book also shows us that people's tolerance for suffering cannot be underestimated. Especially in the face of death, living will be more valuable. So, my friend, if difficulties destroy your life, don't let them destroy your will to live again.

This dog will never bring itself, but the temptation of death.

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