Boyfriend 36 divorced, no house and no car, should I marry?

I saw true love in a trance. Why have I never met a girl like you?

Everyone longs for love. We all hope to meet our own prince charming. One day, we will come to us on a white horse or in a colorful auspicious cloud, kneeling on one knee, holding a 10 carat diamond ring and whispering, will you marry me?

But life always gives us one blow after another, a left hook and a right hook, which makes us at a loss. I have been in a trance for twenty or thirty years, let alone Prince Charming, and I have never seen anyone riding a donkey.

I don't know if I should persuade you to marry him. I'm 36 years old, divorced, without a car, a house or a deposit. I always think this condition is a bit scary.

There are still some requirements for girls to get married now. Maybe you are willing to fight and suffer with him, but have you considered your future children?

When the child is still in college, his father has reached retirement age. People who are still "three noes" at the age of 36, when that time comes, what will they take to make their children grow up?

I don't know how old you are, and I can't judge a person simply from material conditions. Some people are really nice, but their abilities are limited. You are lucky to meet such a person.

But some people not only have limited abilities, but also have many problems. What you see may be just the appearance. What life will be like after marriage, you may not even imagine it yourself.

Ask parents for guidance. If they agree, I have nothing to say. If they don't agree, I think you should still refer to their opinions. I think the same as them.

We always expect happiness, but happiness doesn't fall from the sky. We are always looking forward to the future, but the future is not randomly chosen. It's always right to be cautious about marriage.