When my husband comes home, he only knows how to play mobile phones. How should I communicate with him?

Many mothers will have this experience after giving birth to their babies. The perfect husband who can do housework and understand suddenly disappeared, which became an obstacle to action. When you quickly enter the role of mother, it seems that your other half has not found the entrance to being a father. Some husbands only look down at their mobile phones when they go home. You were angry, but he said he didn't know what to do. But you must admit that when you see your husband interacting with your baby, you will feel very gratified. After becoming a mother, what excites and moves me most is watching my husband and our son together. My husband is very patient.

Although he is not good at coaxing children, he is very dedicated to them (maybe I am biased, but I think he is great). Sometimes I even secretly listen to their noisy voices and take photos silently, because these things are precious. As mothers and wives, we have the responsibility to help husbands and children get along well, because children spend most of their time with their mothers, and it is very valuable and important to establish a harmonious family relationship between father and son. There is a saying on the internet that "a man who can make money is nothing, but a father who can take care of his baby is worth cherishing."

Here are some ways to make your husband play the role of father perfectly: most babies are breastfed by their mothers, so fathers usually can't participate in the actual feeding, but that doesn't mean fathers can't participate in the feeding. In fact, you can make dad burp after feeding the baby. Dad can feel great satisfaction when the baby burps more. "Look, I burp!" For the artificially fed baby, dad can help the baby make milk powder, hold the baby in his arms like a mother and feed it with a bottle. I dare say that my father's love is being generated at this time. Who said that breastfeeding is a mother's patent?

When a family has a newborn, they often start to worry about feeding, changing diapers, washing clothes, cooking and eating. But you mustn't take it all on yourself, so that your father can take part in some housework as soon as possible. For example, changing a baby's diaper and washing clothes, or asking his father to comfort him when the baby is crying. All you have to do is encourage him, don't blame him for his poor work, and don't discourage him. From the birth of a baby, you should let your father bathe the baby. The baby will feel very comfortable and good in warm water, and there will be a lot of fun in the process of bathing. When the baby grows up, it will become naughty when taking a bath, while the father is stronger and can hold the baby more safely. Every morning from waking up to going to work, every family looks different. Take my home as an example. At about 7: 30 in the morning, the tank woke up. My dad's job is to change diapers and play with tanks for a while, then I take a nap. Because I go to work early, I only leave time for myself after getting up. Father will fully enjoy the parent-child time with the tank every morning. If you want to establish a close parent-child relationship with your children, you need to accumulate slowly and accompany them with high quality every day.

Those early mornings mean a lot to dad. This is the best way to familiarize the baby with his father's voice and feelings. You can let your father choose what books to read to your children. In the process of telling stories, the baby will gradually get closer to his father, and the communication between father and son (father and daughter) will gradually be smooth. Of course, this is also a good time for you to relax. As a mother (or woman), sometimes she is eager to control everything, but letting go properly will do more harm than good for your husband and children. As a wife, she should know how to make her husband learn to be a father. When fathers and children are together, they will have their own ways of playing or some trivial secrets, and the father's behavior will completely make up for the mother's shortcomings. When I really let go, it is also the time for my father to grow up quickly.