What does it mean to say that a bowl of rice raises benefactors and a bucket of rice raises enemies?

Yes, you can't try your best to help others, otherwise the next time you don't try your best, the other party will think that you are not interesting enough, and you will add enemies in vain. Alas, this is society.

A bowl of rice keeps a benefactor and a bucket of rice keeps an enemy. How many dream people wake up in one sentence! The question that has been puzzling for a long time, this sentence finally found the root and made you suddenly enlightened! The traditional education I received since I was a child is loyalty to people, and I also understand the truth that "a drop of water is rewarded with a spring." So, when my beloved friend left me, I was depressed and puzzled: although I didn't want to go back, it shouldn't be like this. What kind of truth is this?

A bowl of rice keeps a benefactor and a bucket of rice keeps an enemy. Understanding this sentence makes me enlightened! When a person is hungry and cold, if you give him a bowl of rice and solve his big problem, he will be grateful. But if you continue to feed him, he will take it for granted. One bowl of rice is not enough, two bowls of rice are not enough, and three bowls and four bowls still feel that you have only given a drop in the bucket. Desire is like sea water. The more you drink, the more thirsty you are. Desire is actually an itch in your soul. The pain can be resisted, but the itch is more and more scratched.

Once upon a time, there were two neighbors. One of them is much richer, but the two get along well. One year, natural disasters led to a crop failure in Tanaka. The poor family lost their harvest and had to wait for death. The rich family had a lot of food, so they sent a liter of rice to the poor family, which saved their lives.

The poor families are very grateful to the benefactors who saved their lives! The hardest time passed, and the poor thanked the rich. While speaking, talking about the seeds that have not landed next year, the rich man generously said, well, I still have a lot of food here, so you can take it again. The poor man went home grateful with a bucket of rice.

After returning home, the family said, what can this bucket of rice do? There are not enough seeds in the field next year. They have gone too far. Since they are so rich, they should send us more food and money. This word reached the ears of the rich man, who was very angry. He thought, I gave you so much food for nothing, and you not only didn't thank me, but also treated me as an enemy. As a result, the two families, who had a good relationship, became enemies and kept away from each other. This is to promote rice and combat rice. When people are starving to death, you give them a liter of rice, and he will treat you as a benefactor; But if you give me a bucket of rice, he will think, since you can afford a bucket of rice, give me an extra bucket. If you don't give it to me, you will become my enemy.

During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a woman named Evonne in the State of Wu. Before the daughter got married, she said, "When you get to your in-laws' house, don't do anything good. The girl asked her mother, "If you don't let me do good, can I do bad things?" "Mother immediately said seriously," you can't do anything good, let alone bad things! "

Evonne's remarks are very complicated, including philosophical issues, moral issues and psychological issues. Evonne's words in Notes on World Neologisms deeply touched Yu Jiaxi. He said: "In ancient times, those who taught women were especially reluctant to show violence when things happened, so as to attract people's jealousy, rather than prohibiting them from doing good." It is not impossible to do a good deed. I'm afraid others will get used to it, and even think I should do it naturally.

It often happens in life that the first time you help him, he will appreciate you, and the second time his gratitude will fade. After n times, he simply thought that this should be done for him. Even without this kind of help, he will have resentment towards his helper, which is called gratitude and resentment.

A bowl of rice raises a benefactor, and a bucket of rice raises an enemy.

Knowing this, my heart is relieved. This sentence has untied many people's hearts.

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