Children are timid, lack self-confidence and are not active in anything. What should children do if they are timid and lack confidence?

Every parent wants their children to be confident, but self-confidence is not innate and needs constant recognition and encouragement.

What if the child lacks self-confidence? First, encourage your child to praise him every time he makes progress, no matter how big or small, as long as he is allowed to do it or finish it alone. Sometimes it is effective to cheer for mom and dad, or give a thumbs up. When children do a good job in life, they will actively affirm their achievements and enlarge their advantages, so that children will want to show themselves more and more and dare to face more new things, and their self-confidence will be greatly enhanced!

Second, communicate with children equally. When children encounter unhappy things, parents should let them express their thoughts and opinions without criticism and judgment. Over time, children will have something to share with you, and parents will become their friends to talk to, which is conducive to the growth of children's self-confidence!

Third, let children learn to be independent, shape their independent consciousness from an early age, take the initiative to talk to the teacher and finish their homework independently. Parents sometimes underestimate children's independence and weaken their self-confidence.

Fourth, let children feel the experience of success. We can start with simple things, let children experience success, and then increase their interest and motivation for success.

5. When children encounter setbacks, parents should help them analyze the causes of setbacks together in time and help them regain their confidence.

Sixth, reduce the comparison. When parents compare their children with other children, children will feel different and think that they are inferior to that child in all aspects, which may lead to inferiority complex. Every child has a bright spot. We may not find the bright spot of children, or we may not find the time. When we find that our children have bright spots that others don't, I believe we will be proud of our children.

Seven, let children have their own ideas in life. Many parents care about their children's life, from what school they go to, what kind of friends they make, to what clothes they should wear today. In fact, in some small things in life, parents can let go and let their children make their own decisions.