Only by looking down on gains and losses can we find the best balance point in life.

First, the most powerful love must include the cruelest decision, abandoning everything, resisting temptation, even death, escape and pain. How do you know that the cruelest thing is ultimately out of love?

Second, all sorrows always leave a happy clue, and all regrets always leave a perfect corner.

Third, life is not all multiple-choice questions, but application questions. It doesn't matter if we argue a little and make a choice.

Fourth, I don't like waiting. No matter what I wait for is good or bad, my heart is hanging and my taste is bad.

Similar people are suitable for having fun together, and complementary people are suitable for growing old together.

Maybe sometimes we can't achieve the expected results even if we try hard, maybe sometimes we can't do it well, maybe we have tasted countless tears at night, and maybe many things are beyond our control. But it doesn't matter, there must be cracks in life to let the sun shine in.

The girl said: I can't go to your date because my mother doesn't allow me to come back late. It's not a reason, it's a refusal. The boss said: Sorry, our salary is always so high. That's no reason, but you are not an exception. When people don't love enough, don't work hard enough, and don't use enough experience, they always like to create some reasons that are not reasons to excuse themselves in order to step down.

Nine, life is not perfect, twists and turns are also scenery. Sometimes I feel heavy and slow, maybe it's climbing a hill. Don't always envy others, I believe that the scenery that belongs to you is still behind. Learn to persevere and endure, no one knows how much you will gain in the next second.

Ten, there are always some things that make you see some people inadvertently.

Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft.

Twelve, luck determines who you meet in life; The heart decides who you want to stop in life; However, time determines who you are with in your life.

If you cling to the past too tightly, how can you make room to embrace the present?

Fourteen, life is like a balance, always need balance: one side is to pay, the other side is to accept; On the one hand, it is to pay, and on the other hand, it is to get; On the one hand, it is cultivation, on the other hand, it is harvest; On the one hand, it is material, on the other hand, it is spiritual; One side is yourself, and the other side is others. God is embarrassed, too. He can't give you all the good things, nor can he put all the misfortunes on you. Only by looking down on gains and losses can we find the best balance point in life.

When you lose all external values, don't forget that you still have the value of life.

Don't pay attention to those who talk behind your back, it only shows that you are better than them.

I want you to be happy more than anyone else, but I am sad to think that your future happiness is not because of me.

Love me, not because I am beautiful, but because there are more outstanding people in this world than me. Love me, not because of my wisdom, there are countless wise men in this world. Love me, just because I am me, better, worse, stupid, unique throughout the ages, love me, just because we met. Zhang Xiaofeng

Nineteen, the wind can blow a piece of white paper, but it can't blow a butterfly away, because the power of life lies in disobedience.

20. Returning to the details of life, regardless of fate or mood, we all have the responsibility to eat well, sleep well, take care of ourselves and tidy up ourselves. Live every day, every moment, in the details of life. Laugh at yourself in the mirror three times a day and thank yourself for everything before going to bed. No matter what happens, be kind to yourself first.

It seems that no woman in the world will count her three meals a day. If a woman has been married for 50 years, she will cook more than 54,000 meals. This is crazy. Women just turned a small kitchen into a temple dedicated to incense. She is a lifelong priest, more pious than any monk. She must be persistent and gentle to make people cry. Zhang Xiaofeng

No matter how much pain you have experienced, you will eventually forget it. Because nothing can beat time.

Twenty-three, love, no name, waiting before meeting, is its name. Xi Murong

It doesn't matter if you are sad, it doesn't matter if you want to cry, it doesn't matter if you are hurt, and it doesn't matter if you are alone. Give time and everything will pass.

25. When winter comes, you should hold me tight.

26. The difference between life and life is that the former is just an unavoidable minute that we have experienced and will pass one day, while the latter is the sum of those people and things that we persistently want to cherish. Xi Murong 1, when you get lost on the road of life, remember this sentence: never forget why we set out because we have been walking for too long.

Love with all your heart, and leave the rest to fate. This is a simple rule that smart people will follow.

Talk about belittling gains and losses

Talk about belittling gains and losses

1, bearish, right or wrong; Put it down, it's a matter of success or failure. If you can afford it, you can let it go, and the gains and losses in life are normal; Stand tall and look far, don't care about right or wrong; When you figure it out and see through it, life will naturally be confused. The gains and losses in one's life are always balanced. What we lose will always be found in another place.

2. I think I was wrong, thinking that cultivating the mind is to reduce the desire. Maybe cultivating the mind is to increase the desire. No desire can only make people look down on gains and losses, and it can give people the power to move forward, or it should be desire.

3, fate does not refuse, territory does not stay, gains and losses are not underestimated, let yourself enjoy happiness.

Who doesn't want to afford it, let it go, make life happy and fast, and make life easy. But how many people realize that they have been watching mountains and waters all their lives. If you can afford it, you must be able to resist it. If you can put it down, you need to be open. This is both ability and wisdom. All the sufferings in the world are welcome. If you can look down on gains and losses, enjoy the process and be firm and natural, this is the perfect life.

5, the gains and losses of life are bearish, wholeheartedly follow the fate, let go of the past, cherish the present and hope for the future. Patience in adversity, convergence in prosperity, pessimism in prosperity, and resignation in frustration. There are some things in life, which make me feel headache when I think too much, and some feel very distressed. Don't even think about it if you don't get it. If you don't get it, don't. Why do you want to wronged yourself? Let go of the burden, forget all the troubles and spend every day happily.

6. After passing by, I learned more, learned more, and learned a lot about the ups and downs of Fiona Fang. Have a normal heart, look down on gains and losses, transcend success or failure, not be fascinated by material desires, not be disturbed by troubles, be clear-headed and see nature, and improvise. Normal mind is a life attitude and wisdom. Good Night!

7. Time is a knife that pierces hypocrisy. It tests lies, exposes reality and dilutes promises. You just need to have a clear conscience. Everything has a destiny. When you feel cheated and perfunctory, learn to smile indifferently. If you come, you will look down on gains and losses. Tell yourself that the most embarrassing thing in life is to overestimate your position in others' hearts. Learn to let go. If you have the heart, I won't. If you have no heart, I will let go.

8. There are always gains and losses in the world, and there is no need to pursue perfection. The full moon is also the most beautiful picture. Don't sigh that life is too heartless, and don't complain that life is helpless. Happiness, there is no shortcut, and it will not be perfect. Look down on dust, look down on gains and losses. Don't compare with others, and don't care about yourself. Cherish what you have is the greatest happiness. Life is like drinking, half drunk and half awake is the most appropriate; Life is like writing, half loose and half tight is the most natural.

9, life, there are always some helpless things, life, there are always some sad feelings; I believe that maturity takes time, and a deeper understanding requires pain. Don't care about fame and fortune, look down on gains and losses, and you will experience real fun. Only indifferent and quiet is a transparent life.

10, light, so it is not bitter. Sweet makes it bitter, and bitter makes it weak. Life is like water, and desire is like sugar. It is not that the more sugar, the sweeter the water. Proper pursuit can make life sweet, and too much desire can turn sweetness into bitterness. A heart can tolerate dullness and respect gains and losses, although there is no great joy or great sorrow. Light years, light mood, walk quietly, sit gracefully and sleep peacefully. The taste of life is fragrant after a long time.

1 1. Nine times out of ten, life is unpleasant, but it is no different from people. Look down on gains and losses, Jing 'an is my heart. I was lucky to get it, but I don't think so. The gains and losses are all in people's hearts, and everything is heart-warming. I also firmly believe that this place of peace of mind is my hometown. I will try my best to make myself broad-minded, calm and calm, not shocked by honor and disgrace, watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, unintentionally staying, and going with the clouds.

12, liberation, can't rely on others, only on yourself. In fact, no one binds himself, and the rope in his heart is tied by himself. If you are addicted to utilitarianism, you will be bound by fame; Whether you praise or criticize, you will suffer. The more desire, the more bondage; The less desire, the more freedom. It is not difficult to get rid of it. You just need to be indifferent to fame and fortune, look down on gains and losses, and treat life with a peaceful and calm attitude.

13, when you feel neglected, perfunctory and helpless, learn to smile indifferently, and the coming will always come! Look down on gains and losses. Seriously, you lose! Tell yourself that the most embarrassing thing in life is to overestimate your position in others' hearts!

14, everything starts from karma and is born from thoughts. . If you cling to something or something, you will suffer from loss and worry. If you can see everything, you will be fearless. Life is often about what you are afraid of. When you look down on gains and losses and have no sense of success or failure, you will succeed smoothly. The most precious thing in life is to have a normal heart, stay away from turbid waves and be calm as water.

15, the big pattern has great influence and is not bound by trivial matters. The size of the tool determines the size of the enterprise. Where there are talents, perfection is not sought. Don't let doubt ruin your life. Forgiving others is actually letting yourself go. A broad mind dilutes the pain of life, despises the gains and losses of fame and fortune, keeps a normal heart and faces life calmly.

16, when you feel cheated, perfunctory and helpless, learn to smile indifferently, and the coming will always come! Look down on gains and losses. Seriously, you lose! Tell yourself that the most embarrassing thing in life is to overestimate your position in others' hearts! In the age of no doubt, learn to let go. If you have a heart, I have no intention. If you have no intention, I will let go.

17, look down on dust; Shallow view on interpersonal relationship; Look down on gains and losses; Look on the bright side. Being a man is like drinking, half drunk and half awake is the most appropriate; For things like writing, it is most natural to be half loose and half tight.

18, too concerned about other people's opinions, there will be two endings in the end, either exhausting yourself or letting others die. Life is a kind of practice, and practice is actually a spiritual practice. Small heart, big things; Big heart, small things. Big heart, let the things of the world; Empty your heart and enjoy the beauty of the world; Sneak into their hearts and study the principles of the world; Keep a correct attitude and deal with the changes in the world. Only by looking down on the gains and losses can we accommodate things, with an empty mind, a calm mind and growing wisdom, and we should be constant and change.

19, life is often what you are afraid of. When you look down on success or failure, grievances and hostilities, it is smooth sailing and success in adversity. If you cling to something, you will suffer from loss and worry. If you don't worry about anything and look at everything, you will be fearless. Good morning!

20. There are as many disasters in life as there are gloom in the heart. How much light there is in the heart, how much luck there is in life. People who are always noble to others will often meet noble people in their lives. The universe is balanced, and bad people will make up for it if they hurt our good people; Fools owe us, and wise people will pay us back; Mortals owe us a reward from heaven. Therefore, we should look down on gains and losses and pursue beauty.

2 1, the endless brush drags the tail of time, but only repeats the past. There are always people in this world who can live the life you want, who are willing to live up to their sincerity and look down on gains and losses. If people don't talk about human affairs, there is nothing in the world.

22, many things are forced to reluctantly come, calmly face, look down on gains and losses.

23. I am fascinated by the end of the world. Looking far away, where the water meets the sky, there is no endless lingering feelings. Turn into a bird and soar into the sky; Or, turn into a boat and suddenly go away. How many things in life are happy, and how many sorrows in the world are laughed at. Learn to look down on gains and losses, and you will find that the road is still so broad; The wind is still so natural; The scenery is still so beautiful.

24. Things are valuable only if they can be used; People are useful only if they can be used. Do things with all your heart, and be conscientious; Don't be swayed by other people's words and deeds, and don't be discouraged by setbacks; Be a self-confident and self-respecting person. In the face of failure, you should have pride; Look down on gains and losses, you will be happy!

Today, I shared my recent life with my mother by phone and talked for a long time. I think only my mother is my best friend and will never abandon me. I will always put my health, happiness and happiness first. I will always believe in my ability and support my choice. At the same time, my best teacher will teach me to love and give, to protect myself and to be indifferent to gains and losses. My greatest wish in my life is to travel around the world with my mother. I hope I can become stronger before that.

26. As it turns out, contact is unnecessary, because contact is not constant. People with connections don't like Mo You who has lost connections. People's abilities are big and small, life has ups and downs, and contacts will naturally correspond to them. Satisfied with a pulse width, don't sell yourself short, and don't give up when you are frustrated. If you look down on the gains and losses, you will see through the essence of contacts, which will make people calm and relieved.

27. When you feel cheated, perfunctory and helpless, learn to smile indifferently, and what should come will always come! Look down on gains and losses. Seriously, you lose! Tell yourself that the most embarrassing thing in life is to overestimate your position in others' hearts!

28. It's New Year's Day again. Time flies, white clouds are pale dogs. If there is progress, there will be stagnation or even retrogression. In retrospect, the passage of time, life events, the original can not tell. Some right and wrong gains and losses used to be clear, but now they are vague. The impermanence of this world is real. So, at first, I also looked down on some grievances. I know how to let nature take its course better. I do my part, and the rest is arranged by God ~

29. Yesterday was a book with frozen memory. Today is a page of life. Tomorrow is a painting waiting to be painted. Don't cherish the glory of yesterday, don't indulge in the pace of reality, and don't be confused about the hope of the future. The bitterness of life is entangled with gains and losses, accompanied by success or failure, and success or failure is optimistic; The true meaning of happiness is to be happy when you get it, calm when you lose it, and look down on gains and losses. Let the past go, let the mood be cheerful, smile on the road, be simple and natural, and follow the fate wholeheartedly!

30. Some people say that the state of mind, taken apart, means that the heart is bigger. Bad mentality, to put it bluntly, is that the heart is too small. It is better to learn to accept anything than to worry. Only by looking down on gains and losses can we enjoy happiness.

32. Being a man likes to drink, and it is most appropriate to be half drunk and half awake; For things like writing, it is most natural to be half loose and half tight. Down-to-earth walk, let nature take its course and look down on dust; Shallow view on interpersonal relationship; Look down on gains and losses; Take success or failure lightly, don't compare with others and don't care about yourself. Some things in the world don't need to be seen too clearly. What you are trying to see clearly is actually a kind of confusion, a kind of entanglement, a kind of trouble and a kind of burden.

33. Time is a knife that pierces hypocrisy; It verifies lies, exposes reality and dilutes promises. As long as you have a clear conscience, everything has its own destiny. When you feel cheated, perfunctory and helpless, learn to smile indifferently, and what should come will always come! Look down on gains and losses. Seriously, you lose! Tell yourself that we are all passers-by who come and go in a hurry. This is just a trip to the world. Let Pepsi start from the heart and smile to solve thousands of worries.

34. How disappointed should this moment be? The tired and resentful life is really ups and downs, or the life that I once thought about giving up or finding time to give up, but for a moment, I also wanted to stick to it, drink and listen to music, and face the gains and losses calmly and optimistically.

35. Most of the time, we are rejoicing in what we have got and sad for what we have lost. Counting decades of life, rushing by, people's life is nothing more than catching and scattering. Life is a passer-by in a hurry, look down on the gains and losses, give a warm hug and cherish it; Don't regret leaving, have a good blessing. Nothing in a person's life belongs to us, we are just users. Want to let go, let go, let go, will there be pain?

36. We feel the malice of life. But who can guarantee that life should be happy? When you feel perfunctory, left out and helpless, learn to smile indifferently, and what should come will always come! Look down on gains and losses. Seriously, you lose! Tell yourself that the most embarrassing thing in life is to overestimate your position in the eyes of others.

37. An elegant life is light and tasteful. Our life is like a column of incense, the past is gone, happiness or pain, like incense ashes burning to the end, will eventually fall. Life is impermanent and people's hearts are fickle. Why bother with those grievances? Looking down, there is no right or wrong; Put it down, and that's it. There are three thousand things in the world, so smile indifferently. Facing all kinds of situations in life, it is an elegance of life to laugh it off.

38, life is like a balance, always need some kind of balance, one side is to pay, the other side is to accept; On the one hand, it is to pay, and on the other hand, it is to get; On the one hand, it is cultivation, on the other hand, it is harvest; On the one hand, it is material, on the other hand, it is spiritual; One side is yourself, and the other side is others. God is embarrassed, too. He can't give you all the good things, nor can he put all the misfortunes on you. Only by looking down on gains and losses can we find the best balance point in life.

39. If you are sweet to the strong, you will become bitter, and if you are bitter, you will be weak. Life is like water, and desire is like sugar. It is not that the more sugar, the sweeter the water. Proper pursuit can make life sweet, and too much desire can turn sweetness into bitterness. A heart, as long as it can stand the dull, can look down on gains and losses, although there is no great joy and great sorrow.

40. If you know that fate is too true, you will be happy together. Knowing the gains and losses is too true, so I get joy and lose time. Even success or failure, love and hate, grievances look down on gains and losses, and troubles can stop.

4 1, because you don't look down, you can't put it down. It is called a rein, and profit is a rope. The temptation in the world is like a rope, which binds all sentient beings. All the troubles and pains in life come from this. If you want to get rid of it, you must first be indifferent to fame and fortune and look down on gains and losses. The success or failure of life is only in an instant, and we are complacent; If you think you are lost, you are depressed. With a normal heart and a suddenly enlightened attitude, life is naturally relaxed.

On the personality of belittling gains and losses

1, only by looking down on gains and losses can we find the best balance point in life.

2. Happiness is actually in an instant. When we look down on one thing, instead of arguing about right and wrong, we just feel that what we have is happiness.

Be sure to control yourself and don't let him mess around.

Only if you are not afraid of fate, behave yourself and look down on gains and losses, can you enjoy happiness. "

I'm not afraid of anything. The only thing I'm afraid of is being apart from you.

6. Can love be recovered? If I can, I will beg every day. I don't care what others think of me.

7. I don't love you enough, because I can't keep going. I thought about giving up.

8. If you underestimate the gains and losses, you will have a feeling of tolerance and indifference, and a rare peace of mind.

9. From today on, I begin to hate you! Let you not admit your mistake, hate you, hate you, hate you.

Lang Lang, I want everyone to know how much my children love you.

1 1, my heart is broken again and again. You are really capable.

12, hold back your tears and try to pretend it doesn't matter.

13, if you want to laugh naturally, you will definitely put it down when you see through it. Only by letting go of greed and looking down on gains and losses can we enjoy happiness.

14, am I too stupid? I've been looking forward to the day when you only belong to me, maybe not at all.

15, look down on gains and losses, have no desire, be selfish when it is time to be selfish, and don't abuse yourself.

16, man, I don't have these accessories you want. Can't I stay with you?

17, wait for me. I waited for half a year, but I didn't wait for the day when you belonged to me.

18, want to travel, want to be alone.

19, the person I have always loved, when will you give me the result?

20. No one stays up late, let the tears dry before crying, and don't cry in the future! Don't let people who see their jokes look down on you and be proud of yourself.

2 1, I believe you still love me because I am stupid.

22. I prayed to the sky that I and the waves would come to an end.

23. If you give me the cold war like this again, I really think you don't love me!

Why did it start again? Because I still can't get used to that humble love.

25. Since I gave you a chance and you don't want to cling to me, don't blame me for doing too well.

26. What remains unchanged is the world, and what is most changeable is the people's heart. The realm of pessimism is not caring about gains and losses, and the highest realm of forgiving oneself is not hating.

27. Don't make me love you. Actually, I can do anything. It doesn't matter.

28. There are too many gains and losses in a person's life, so why be too persistent about one thing. Be tolerant of yourself and look down on your troubles. Don't force yourself to be happy.

29. You pushed me so far, so far, so far.

I don't want to do anything for me and say that you love me.

The best response to life

Sometimes, what you say may hurt others, but sometimes, your silence will hurt others more.

2, everyone will be tired, no one can bear all the sadness for you, and people must always learn to grow up by themselves.

The happiness on your face can be seen by others, but who can feel the pain hidden in your heart?

If you are not careful, people will always miss a lot of real beauty.

5, don't love too hard, two wrong people break up, maybe you can create happiness for four people.

6. I can't see through some things, not that I am too stupid, but that I am too kind.

One day you will find that I can't be replaced by anyone.

8. Every gift you hate has a past in which you didn't work hard enough.

9. One day, you will say something that makes you sad with a smile.

10, who doesn't learn to be strong when injured.

1 1, no matter how slow your steps are, as long as you are walking, you will always see progress.

12, not everyone can make waves in my heart.

13, sometimes you think the sky is going to fall, but you are actually standing by yourself.

14, youth is like a container, full of anxiety, restlessness, youth and occasional madness.

15, partner, you don't have to go to the end. On a certain road, the laughter brought by the other party is enough.

16, I don't expect it, I won't be sad if I lose it, but I will be surprised if I get it.

17, let me go on bravely in my own world.

18. The best response to life is to live happily.

No one can take away your pain, so don't let anyone take away your happiness.

20. The most beautiful thing in the world is a smile that breaks away from tears.

2 1, sometimes forgetting is the best liberation; Sometimes, silence is the best way to tell.

22. The direction against the wind is more suitable for flying.

23. Don't buy useless things, no matter how cheap; Don't depend on people you don't love, no matter how lonely they are.

24. Don't ask others why, ask yourself why.

25. Even if no one applauds you, take a graceful curtain call and thank yourself for your earnest efforts.

26. The world is too big and life is too short. Try to enjoy it.

No matter what happens, don't give up. Keep going, there will be unexpected scenery.

28, if the heart is concerned, there are grievances everywhere; If you relax, it is always spring.

29, take others too seriously, as a result, you are nothing in the eyes of others.

30. Just don't meet. You will always be the one I remember.