There are high school students at home who are tired of learning and disobedient, and their parents are very anxious. What should they do?

Hello, this parent. For high school students, the first is the pressure of study. After all, the college entrance examination determines a person's life. Second, psychological changes from adolescence, most high school students are between 15 and 18 years old. This period is the biggest stage of children's physical and psychological changes, such as disobedience, anger, dislike of learning, and gratitude to parents for not understanding. At this time, parents need to find the right language to communicate with their children, make them like listening to their parents' reasonable words, help them find happiness in their studies, make them fall in love with learning, take the initiative to learn, and cultivate their correct outlook on life, world outlook and values.

? First of all, analyze the reasons why senior high school students are tired of learning:

1, the content of high school is more difficult than that of junior high school, and the learning intensity is greater. Some students with poor foundation can't keep up with their studies, which leads to weariness of learning;

2. There is too much homework and no extra time to digest, which leads to lack of interest in learning.

3. Parents and teachers expect too much from their children and put too much pressure on them, which leads to weariness of learning.

4. Negative effects of social phenomena. Such as "unfair distribution", "difficult employment for college students", "rising unemployment rate" and corruption cases exposed by media and folk rumors have had a negative impact on high school students from different angles and shaken their enthusiasm and enthusiasm. Confidence in learning.

5. Harm the children of single parents and stepmother families. With the rising divorce rate, there are more and more single-parent families and later two-parent families. If disabled families are not handled properly, a considerable number of children will be disappointed and disgusted with their parents because of their resistance and dissatisfaction.

? 2. What should high school students do when they are bored?

1. It is necessary to create a good family and study environment, enhance sexual interest, and study hard consciously, instead of relying on the pressure of others to study passively.

2, pay attention to give children a private space, let children have their own hobbies, rest, sports activities, etc.

3. Help children develop interest in learning. I hope my son Jackie Chan is good, but don't put too much pressure on him. Be good at guiding him.

4. Nutritional support. Under the great pressure of study, the nutrition supply should be guaranteed.

5. Discover students' bad tendencies, such as internet addiction, playing mobile phones, puppy love, etc. And correct them. If necessary, please consult a psychologist for psychological consultation.

In short, parents and teachers should have patience and confidence to correct their children's weariness of learning, so as to achieve the goal of good study, good health and good conduct.