What is the saying that eating people has a short mouth and is soft on people?

The original sentence is "eat people with soft lips and take people with short hands". There is a saying in China, which means that if you take the benefits of others, you will deliberately be courteous, even if the other party has shortcomings or mistakes, you dare not say it and don't care. Eat the benefits of others and say good things to others when necessary; If you take someone else's things, don't touch them again.

The original meaning of "short hands and soft mouth" is warning, not the principle of proving cause and effect. Is to get the benefits of others, you have to work for others. But there has never been such logic in the world. I have never said that taking a person's hand should be short and eating a person's mouth should be soft.

Although a proverb can ease our inner comfort, it also shows that we are easily tempted by some "petty profits" and do things that we didn't want to do, warning people not to have a greedy heart. Therefore, at the critical moment, we must distinguish between small interests and righteousness.

English version:

1, eating people is soft, and taking people is short;

Soft mouth and short hands.

Soft mouth: unable to say fair and powerful words.

2. Eating people has a soft mouth and short hands.

As the saying goes: "Eating people is soft, taking people short", you have to rely on your own hands to make a fortune.

As the saying goes, "if you eat soft, you will get short." To get rich, you must rely on your own hands.