What should a man do regardless of his family?

I can see that you are a difficult woman.

I think, first of all, when the children are not at home, it is best to have a calm talk with their husbands. Remember never to get angry, it will lose the meaning of the conversation. Let him talk about why he always plays outside and doesn't care about his family, while I wash and cook with my children at home. He can't talk to him about children. You can also find friends to play with. You don't have to care about your family every day, but you can think about your children and family. This shows that you are a loving mother and a qualified wife. You said you felt lost in life, lost. Don't think that children are the goal and purpose of your life.

The most important thing for two people to be together is mutual understanding and respect. A husband should know how to love his wife and take care of his children. A wife should know how to be considerate of her husband. Don't blame her husband too much. Think about each other's empathy. Don't think that he is busy working all day for the sake of this family and a better life for you and your children. It is not easy for your husband to know that you are a wife and a mother. Talk to him about problems at work. If you enlighten him. I believe every gentleman can appreciate his wife knowing that this family should know how to adjust their emotions and not be angry with him. It is not worthwhile to solve problems rationally.

Finally, you said you wanted a divorce. In fact, the biggest victim of divorce is two children together. In 2004, people said it was 1 day. Besides, it has been 14 years. I believe your husband is not the kind of person who has no conscience at home. If you do what a wife should do, and he is as bad as before, then there is no need for such a man to be with him. That's what I'm talking about. Please forgive me if there is any mistake!