Mother has just had dinner with her boyfriend and knows his family background.

Couples have been in love for a long time, so it's time to meet their parents. Many times, girls are easily carried away by love and get married in a daze. However, after all, their parents have experienced many things and can see many details that children can't see. After all, parents are more experienced than children, so it is important for girls to take their boyfriends home and ask their parents for advice.

Recently, I chatted with one of my readers. She told me that her parents helped her recognize love rat. Her mother just had dinner with her boyfriend, looked at what he brought and told her daughter: this man can't marry. I think it is very suitable for today's topic, so I will talk to you.

I have been a good girl in the eyes of my elders since I was a child. My mother helps me to arrange what to wear tomorrow and what to eat at noon. People around me say that I am too obedient. Actually, I feel good. After all, my parents won't hurt my children. My mother cares about my life and my health. Sometimes when I make friends, my mother reminds me to be vigilant. The final result proved that she was right.

When I was about 26 years old, many friends around me got married one after another, but I was still single. Fortunately, my parents were not in a hurry to marry me off, but said to me, "You must keep your eyes open when looking for a man, and you must bring your mother back to help you check." At this point, I am very free, at least I will not be forced by my parents to go on blind dates.

Love should be the result of fate. Once I met a boy at a company party, I was puzzled for the first time. Besides, the place where he works is right near my company. He knows how to make girls happy. He waits for me downstairs after work every day and then takes me home. We also often date and go to the movies. The most important thing is that every time I encounter difficulties, he will comfort me, help me and make me feel safe. After a long time, we established the relationship.

Not long after we fell in love, he proposed to me in about half a year, which was very romantic in a restaurant. There are flowers, friends and lights, all of which are like the perfect proposal scene in my heart. He promised me that he would be kind to me and love me forever. I was really touched at that time, but I still had the last trace of reason. We've only known each other for half a year, and I don't want my marriage to be too hasty. At that time, he was very angry because I said I would think about it, and I coaxed him for a long time before making up.

When I came home at night, I told my parents that my boyfriend had proposed to me. They said I should have told them earlier when I was in love, which is a good thing. They also asked me to bring my boyfriend back to see him and help me take care of it.

At that time, I felt that my parents were particularly enlightened. I told my boyfriend the news, and he readily agreed.

On the date, he wore a T-shirt and jeans as usual. When I went downstairs to meet him, he happened to be shopping at the fruit stand. It turned out that he bought a fruit basket. Then I take my boyfriend upstairs.

It was quite harmonious when eating. I thought it would be awkward. After all, I didn't know each other before, so it might be a little unnatural to sit together suddenly. But fortunately, my father is talkative, and my mother has been responsible for picking vegetables. Seeing that they get along so well, I think my parents are very satisfied with their boyfriends.

It was not until he left that my mother told me with a straight face, "Daughter, you can't marry this man."

After listening to my mother, I was at a loss. Didn't I just get along well? How to change when people leave? My mother went on to say, "He came to our house for the first time, but he dressed casually and bought a flower basket casually, which shows that he didn't pay attention to this date." And you've been in love with him for six months. Doesn't he know you don't like oranges? It means I don't care enough about you. "

My mother said to me, "I don't want to buy expensive gifts when I meet my parents for the first time." At least I should ask our preferences. Just buy a fruit basket to deal with it, which means I don't care about our family at all. I don't think you can live a good life by marrying him. If you don't believe it, you can test it. "

My mother gave me an idea and invited him to see me again next Saturday. This time, I secretly told my boyfriend that my family didn't like oranges. It was too sour, and my boyfriend readily agreed. But on Saturday, my boyfriend bought a fruit basket with oranges in it, and I realized that my mother was right.

After all, we've been dating for a year, and we won't break up so soon. I also dated him patiently for a while, during which I told him what I hated and what I liked, and he would agree, but I did it, but I still didn't remember my preferences. He doesn't seem to care about my feelings at all. It didn't take long to break up.

Later, I heard that he got married, but it didn't take long for him to divorce. Of course, I don't know the process. I guess he just went his own way and didn't really care about her!

Conclusion:

After reading the girl's self-report, I feel that many times, we must maintain absolute trust in our parents. What is ginger or spicy? After all, parents have experienced a lot and know a lot, which can help us distinguish right from wrong. Many times, we are too young to see, but parents can easily capture the details.

Men and women will certainly say sweet words when they are in love, but a man who really loves you is definitely not talking, but watching him do it. When we are young, we are easily carried away by sweet words. At this time, our parents are our masters, and they will help us to tell whether this man is reliable or not. Don't think that you can decide everything by yourself when you grow up. We should listen to your parents' opinions and consider the problem from their perspective. They always want us to be good. It is better to listen to their opinions and feel with their hearts than to be fascinated by the authorities! Is that so?