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At the age of 25

two years ago, I still felt that in 1992, I still had a chance to be fault-tolerant in this society. At the age of 25, I suddenly found that I have become an elder everywhere. Even as an intern, I am embarrassed to treat myself as a young newcomer. 25 years old, is an embarrassing age, step in the previous step is almost three, but still have no ability to stand tall. 25, 26, 27 ... What should I do before I'm 3 to be what I want to be when I'm 3.

I have been looking for a job for four months. The confusion of the future, the pressure of life, the frustration of emotion, the triple load make me feel particularly anxious every day, and the slight changes in the environment can provoke my mood fluctuations. A question that I often thought about during that time was, what kind of life do I want? What should I do? Because of the special lack of money, I began to make a compromise on the vulgar thing of money. I am a person who yearns for poetry and distance, and I don't want to be defiled by money. But the reality is that without money, life is particularly embarrassing and the freedom that life should have is lost. I began to have a new understanding of money, it is not dirty, it is a tool. It can help people move towards the desired life conveniently. The reason why I have the idea of not getting married is that I want freedom and confidence in my economic independence. But in the past few years with my sister, he has been helping me with my wallet and satisfying my habit of buying in buy buy. The breakup of these months has cut off the dependence on the economy, which has made me so nervous in those months. Therefore, the idea of not getting married has shaken my confidence in my economic independence, and secondly, is it really free? Being unmarried does not mean being single, but it also means that the economy must be independent. Only married people can enjoy it economically. I also rethink my future life direction.

This four-month job-hunting process made me understand that work is the foundation of life and future, and without it, there is no normal life. What's more, for people like me who have no family support, work has become the only resource for me to survive. Of course, work is not equal to money, work is a manifestation of self-worth. I have a strong heart, and my work can make me get spiritual satisfaction. Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory is the highest satisfaction and self-realization satisfaction, which I can get in my work.

Let's talk about feelings. When the feelings I want most are torn to pieces by him, my longing for love has collapsed. And unable to develop the next relationship. I have tried to be friends with him, but it seems that he is far away from me, and his heart has already worn a hundred holes. After all, time can erase the heat of emotion. After that, someone can replace him in my psychological position. Just not yet, I still need to work hard to make my life full and leave no room for him. It's hard. It just takes time.

25 years old, this awkward age, confused life, anxious work, blank feelings. This is my 25-year-old. I am slowly straightening myself out. I am not arrogant and impetuous. I can finally live the life I want, engage in the work I yearn for, and find my right feelings. At this point, I still have to firmly believe that if I don't even have this confidence, let alone the self I want at the age of 3.