Do the elders in the family really love their children or pretend to love them? Hypocrisy is easy to see through. Are you home yet?

Some old people love their children sincerely, some old people are extremely disgusted with their children, and some are insincere.

In fact, whether the elderly love children can be seen at a glance. If they like it, they like it If they don't like it, don't force it. The most unacceptable thing is hypocrisy.

I was brought up by my grandmother, because my parents were very busy at work and my grandmother was paralyzed, so I had to follow her. At first, my grandmother and I lived in the country. Later, when I was old enough to go to school, my grandmother took me back to my parents' city, even though I was not used to city life.

Grandma takes me to and from school every day, takes care of my diet and daily life, and often uses her "coffin book" to buy me favorite things.

Later, I grew up, went to college and left my grandmother, but she developed Alzheimer's disease. She forgot the whole world and only remembered me. She remembers the place where I went to primary school and often stood at the school gate after school.

Every time I talk about grandma, I always burst into tears!

This grandmother really loves her granddaughter, sacrificing her free life in the countryside and taking good care of her. Even though she was ill, she still remembered to pick up her granddaughter from school.

Grandma has two sons, my uncle and my father. My uncle has a good job with a high salary. He has two suites in the city, and my father is an ordinary migrant worker. His salary is only enough to support his family and save money. He bought a house in a small town.

I grew up with my grandmother, but I obviously feel that my grandmother doesn't love me.

In my impression, when my uncle's family comes back, my grandmother is always happy to hold my uncle's child and often buy him clothes and shoes, but my grandmother really never bought anything for me. The only time my grandmother was kind to me was to praise my good grades in front of outsiders, that's all.

I was very happy to hear this when I was a child, but I didn't know until I grew up that it was just grandma in front of others.

Two netizens, two different life experiences, one was injured by the old man, but the other didn't feel the love of the old man at all.

In fact, whether the elderly at home love their children, whether the parents of the children or the children themselves can be personally experienced, and whether it is fake or not is clear at a glance.

(1) unwilling to take care of children.

Before giving birth to a child, the old people at home had all kinds of things, saying that you don't have to worry about giving birth, so I'll take them for you. As a result, after giving birth, I found various reasons not to take care of the children. I'm in poor health and I can't take it off at home. ...

Even if some old people keep their promises, their children's clothes are always washed after their mothers get off work, and their diapers have not been changed. The so-called child care is nothing more than watching the child not get lost, that's all, completely unwilling to take care of it.

(2) stingy to buy things for children

Old people who put their children in their hearts will think of children when they see toys in the street and clothes and shoes in shops. Old people with children in their hearts will always think about being good to their children even if they have no money.

However, there are also many stingy old people who have never bought a suit before their children are a few years old. For these elders, don't pretend to love children, it's too fake.

(3) Always picky about children.

Children are always naughty, and old people who love children usually protect them. Even if parents want to educate their children, the elderly can try their best to protect them.

But some old people often say in front of their parents that their children are not good here and there, do not like cleanliness and are naughty. In short, children are useless in the mouths of old people. This shows that the old man really doesn't like children in his heart. In his eyes, children are all shortcomings and have no advantages. Then I have to add: I did it for him. In fact, children and parents can tell at a glance.

We should be grateful to the elderly for loving their children, because it is the continuation of love and has no purpose; If you don't love your children, it doesn't matter. Children have their own parents to love them. But insincere words make people think about the purpose of the elderly. The essence is not love, but fear of being caught gossiping or being discovered by children is not good for him.

Therefore, hypocrisy is more boring than not loving.

Today's topic: Tell me some examples of loving children around you!